| to a local small bar where i met up with a couple friends...there was a dj and some dancing going on...however i'm not much for dancing..i'd rather sit back, drink a few and talk to the people around me...which is what i did. Played catch up with some of the people i havent seen in a while, that type of shit.
this real cute girl i like came, gave me a hug and said happy birthday blah blah...she's never given me hugs before, so i duno if it was just cuz my bday, or her being semi drunk lol....but it was cool..we stood there with our arms around eachother for a couple minutes, then she went to use the bathroom. i got another drink, went the outside smoking spot with a few people and hung out there for a while bullshitting with people..
the girl and a couple other people come and go from the dance floor, to outside, back and forth...and one time, the cute girl came up grabbed my arm and said come on........i reply, not right now..i just got a drink, i want to enjoy drinking it..and thats what i did while conversing with all the other people around....later on the girl came back out to smoke a cigarette and made a comment along the lines of..
HB: i feel like i'm embarassing everyone, especially you motown..its your birthday celebration and i feel like i'm having more fun than you
ME: some people have fun dancing, some people have more fun conversing with groups...i myself am having a great time talking to these fine people
and i mean, thats how it is....i personally don't have fun dancing..that, to me, is boring..i'd rather socialize...
then today rolls around and me and the girl are talking on facebook......she asked what that drink i had was..so i explain, and told her i found out about it at the casino a few days ago..i had a few there. so we talk about the casino, and how she wants to go, blah blah blah.....then she asked:
HB: is it fun? and addicting?
ME: i can see how it could be addicting, especially if you're winning..you want to keep playing....and of course its fun. i mean, if i had fun...i'm sure you'd have fun..although i know how you can be a stick in the mud sometimes
I mentioned that, trying to make a joke about how she felt i was being a stick in the mud, even though i was having a great time talking to people, whereas she thought i wasn't having a good time because i wasnt dancing
HB: what's that supposed to mean?
ME: haha it was a joke, means you can be boring. like how you thought i wasnt having fun because i didnt want to dance
HB: you guys are the boring ones! you're like 'i'm just guna stand here...' jeez!!
ME: haha it was my celebration, i spent it doing what I wanted to do..have drinks and talk to people
HB: you talked to people? i didn't see that happen
ME: you were on the other side of the building shaking that ass, of course you couldnt see what i was doing haha
and that was the conversation.....i mean, i feel like most of you are guna be like "you shoulda danced" and what not.....but like I said, i don't have fun dancing..i have fun socializing with people.....even thought the cute girl seems to have not seen any of that..
But what can I do here? When we're out, we both make eachother laugh...there is always kino, and we have a good time..........i just personally dont like dancing..so does anyone have any advice on how to salvage this, and possibly make something out of it?
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