Hello all.

This post is not directly linked with pickup although im sure somebody will have some advice to help me with my issue.

So, i have a friend that i often go out with, he isnt a pua and as far as im aware he isnt part of the community. When we are out i do my usual stuff and often end up with a girl. My friend sees this and asks what my secret is, ive done everything i can to help him succeed with women and yet he fails nearly every time he tries. His issue is low confidence and self esteem, he believes that many girls are too good for him or that he isnt atractive enough etc. I've tried everythink i can think of to make him realise that no woman is out of reach and that getting turned down isnt the end of the world but every time he opens a girl he reverts back to square one - a shy, timid AFC.

So my question to everyone is this: How can i help him gain the confidence that he needs to succeed. I have tried everything with him, ive tried to get him to say hello to strangers - men and women, old and young but hes too scared, ive opened sets for him, ive deliberately made women reject me to show him that it isnt fatal, in one case even going back and number closing a girl who rejected me to prove that rejection isnt final. Nothing gets through to him, does andyone have any better ideas on how to help him or like me do you think its a lost cause?

Thanks.

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Live now because the future is promised to no one.

When you feel you've done all you can for him and he STILL wants to be an AFC - I suggest fucking every chick that rejects him.

Evventually, he'll get a clue and stop acting like a pussy and learn this shit. If not, you get laid a lot more.

Win/win


RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

sounds like a plan to me. I really have nothing more to offer him, maybe he will get the message, maybe not, we shall see.

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Live now because the future is promised to no one.

I hear you.

I've got a friend who's the same way. Dude's 51, good looking (Once I got him to shave the 70's porn-stache), but he's a tool. ALWAYS hits on 25yo chicks, thinks hired guns LIKE him, and has one-itis with a chick he has NO shot at... He thinks what I do is 'magic tricks'.

I've told him I understand how to attract a woman. I've suggested a lot, I've entered, and led a 4-set to his utter shock... Now, I sit back, smile, enjoy a drink with him as friends, and I sarge every chick he creeps out. One day, either he'll get the hint, or he'll get pissed - either way, I get to enjoy running game.

Rock on.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

When you talk I sometimes imagine this guy: