I have only started reading into the wonderful world of the game. I would say that i have a small amount of natural game when it comes to girls however since meeting my match i have been forced to try and understand it in alot more depth.....

Basically i was introduced to a girl by a friend and it started off as a few nights out with friends where i closed every time with a kiss. We have been texting and she has been very hard to get with very late replies etc.

I went to visit her where we had a dinner date and all was well however she said she wasnt ready for sex when we got back. This combined with playing extremely hard to get is fuelling me on even more.

I normally can throw good game and techniques at girls i dont like but i think are hot and it works however i think she has broken me and shes the one in control now!

HOW THE FUCK DO I GET OUT THIS AND REGAIN MY ALPHA STANCE!

ANY sugestions would be very much appreciated.

bail

Let's make it a step-by-step guide inside her pants, ok?

1) Chill the fuck out and get yourself together, watch a funny movie, have a wank and come back after.

She likes you so that's not the problem, she just doesn't want to feel like a slut.

2) Stop chasing her so much, it shows you're desperate for her, as if you need her.

3) Show her you don't NEED the sex, you can live without, but you just want to. That's 2 different things! I know it's frustrating, because you really want to bang her, but trust me patience is key in this one. I have to same situation right now...

4) Plan a date somewhere near your house or in a situation where it's possible to take her to your place or wherever you want get it on.

5) Don't fuck up your date

6) Take her home and tell her you want to show that awesome thing you were talking about. Unless the date is at your place. Movies or baking is a good idea!

7) Start making out like you used to and make her feel special during. Physical escalation is the key here. You want to slowly turn her on so she won't be bitching about "no sex" all the time. Kissing her neck is a nice way to get her turned on quickly.

"Show" her something in your room and escalate that to your bed. This is where the fun starts. Ignore the bullshit she says and listen to what her body says. Those can be 2 totally different things, but remember a NO is a NO!

Have fun

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Cheers dude,

I am normally alot more chilled but as i like the girl it fucks up my game.

Do you think a freeze out would be effective?

Twice in this post have you tried to tell yourself you have good game.

Sadly, you're wrong.

'Game' isn't something you read a little about and you're suddenly good. It takes TIME and EFFORT. You'll fail thousands of time before you feel like you're the man. You'll engage set-after-set before you build up the defenses that say "I don't give a fuck". When you don't give a fuck - you'll score exponentially better than you do now.

Until you approach a set, having NO idea what to say, and you have ZERO fear - you need to work on it. I'm 45. I've been doing this for years. I'm self-employed which affords me the ability to make my own schedule, and I vary my routine. I truly don't give a fuck - and I get laid more than I ever have before in my life. Why? Confidence, the ability to cold-read, the balls to approach, and the wit to carry the moment.

If you have to tell us here that you're 'usually' pretty good... you're deluding yourself.

The chick is gaming you? So what? Those are the chicks I want the most - and get! For me, it's "challenge accepted".

Nobody can walk you through the date Trotyl mentioned but yourself. It's a good plan. As for what to show her on your computer... if she likes music... go to YouTube, search for "2Cellos welcome to the jungle".... and enjoy.

I'll even build the fantasy escape for her when I use the clip... As I'm finding it, I'll say "Imagine if we were walking together through Central park, and stumbled upon two guys out of the blue who sit down and begin to play, not realizing how exceptional they were... this is so cool!"

Then I play it, and let her watch for a good 2 minutes before I make ANY kino move, unless she's moved first.

Good luck, READ more, Sarge more, open more and practice practice practice...

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

I dont mean to imply i have amazing game however i do have alot of luck with it.

I just believe that i let my guard down completely to the lethal combo of liking her / her having game (which yes is the girls you want).

Are there any specific routines for breaking a girl's game? or do i just have turn it up a notch?

Don't give a fuck - first and foremost.

Next - think about what every other guy does around her...then do the opposite. Challenge her! Call her out. Start a meaningful conversation and in the middle of her giving you a long explanation, interrupt her and tell her she has something in her teeth...

Remove her frame, undermine her own confidence and see what the fallout is...then game accordingly.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

well said RR

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