Probably going to be a long post, brace yourself...

I may be going on a wine tour in about a week and a half, with plenty of good looking girls that I've known briefly. First of all, for those who don't know, a wine tour is basically getting a limo or party bus and going down to various vineyards and tasting the wine/cider/beer/alcohol. I went on one a couple weeks ago, but it kinda sucked and the girls we went with weren't good looking. I did get a lap dance from a 6 though, haha.

The reason I say we might go is because I have a feeling my connection into it is flaky. She is my roommate's cousin, I made a brief thread about her here: my-roommates-cousin-vt131480.html. We met up with her and her friends a couple weeks ago (post about my failure here: -img-src-http-cdn2pick-up-artist-forumc ... tml#641005 ), where she mentioned her and her friends were going on a wine tour for their birthdays. Turns out my birthday is the same weekend, so I invited myself and my roommates. She seemed excited about it at the time. My one roommate (her cousin) can't go because he has to DJ a wedding that half my friends are going to be at. One reason why I want to go on this wine tour, so I have something to do on my birthday weekend. This weekend I sent her a text that said, "*Roommate* and I are coming on the wine tour for your/my birthday... Sounds good" and she sent me a text back the next day saying, "Haha idk the plans for that yet but I'll let you know!"

So I'm thinking there is a 50/50 chance of going, but if we do go, I was wondering how I should handle the situation. I'd like to hook up with my roommate's cousin, but after recently getting out of LONG term relationship, my technique is lacking. Ultimately, I just want to have a good time and build attraction between my roommate's cousin and I, since I doubt I would be able to close with all her friends there. I used to be good at this shit, now I'm here asking for advice on something as simple as this...

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The hottest ginger you'll ever meet.

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Wine tours are flat AMAZING both in a group setting and one on one. I live at the heart of MI "wine country". And did not know how perfect this is for sarging or the best day 2 ever!

I your group setting, I would (at the 1st stop) nudge up to your target, put your arm around her shoulder/waist, and have her pick out what the two of you should try first! You will be "bus buddies" the rest of the tour!

Hope this helps Bro....worked for this guy

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Great advice Heywood.

If the plans fall through - tell her she owes you a raincheck.

Then plan a 1-on-1 date there.

I can't think of a more 'romantic date'.

Ahhhhh "Making love: Something a chick does when I fuck her"

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Thanks for the advice, it is much appreciated. However, my roommate and I met up with his cousin's friends last night (she couldn't come because she was being responsible ) and it looks like the wine tour is postponed until next month because one girl couldn't make it. Her best friend told me she would keep me updated. I told her she ruined my night jokingly, and she said they are probably going out instead and that I should come along. We'll see if that happens. Although, I did have a decent night talking with my roommate's cousin's friends, even if their conversations are sometimes very boring...

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The hottest ginger you'll ever meet.

I don't have an ego, I just love how awesome I am.