OK, the title sucks, I know, but the thing is, I was kinda impressed that a girl that I recently met on online dating site gave me her SPAM just after 2 or 3 messages sent to her (she commented my profile picture first, then I hers and then we chatted a bit through PM). It was like out of the blue. So I added her, we talked for about 40 minutes (I mean live talking, not chatting), at first she seemed quite energetic (even though it was late) and talked more than I did and actually wasn't able to interrupt, then something happened in the middle of conversation, said she was in bed. Well, probably she was tired, I thought, but then I had to initiate conversation and I was clearly feeling that she was bored, but not sure if it was because of me or that she really needed to sleep.

I know, that's my fault for not knowing how to engage her, even though I was tired myself, had to work tomorrow and didn't plan any live conversations with strangers

Anyway, she got distracted by other SPAM users writing to her and after few minutes we said goodnight to each other promissing to talk more tomorrow evening when I get back from work..


Now the question: what should I say or ask her to not appear like some boring AFC. By the way, I don't think I am AFC, but I'm close, even though I have a job, am pretty confident and cocky at times (especially when in a good mood) just lack social skills and basically, I don't know how to show interest in people sometimes, how to engage them, I am kinda stuck at the basics.

So would appreciate your help guys. I am really interested in her, but I saw only her profile picture and heard her voice, which is quite sexy, by the way and I like it. I dislike girls with irritating voices, no matter how beautiful physically they may be, so that's a huge plus.


Sorry for gramma, spelling and shit.

I would've been like "o, you want me in your bed?"

Did you get her phone number? If so - call her.

If not - I dunno...if the contact has stopped, try a reelback; and if that fails bolt - she's already moved on...

RR

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Message her and be like "hey who sings (insert song here)" then after she replies, if it's the correct artist say "ohh so you are more than just a pretty face thank you and see ya x" and if she is like " I don't know" then be like " oh great help you are , your lucky you have a pretty face. Seeya"
In both scenarios you are complimenting her in a way that she will not expect and in both scenarios you are cutting the thread straight away. Which will make her think about you.
This is what I'd do, you can change the wording.
Good luck dude xx

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I forgot to add that you should say that the song has been stuck in your he'd and it's driving you crazy, this will show her that you haven't thought about her

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Haha last thing, if you find her reply to be good you don't have to cut he thread, you can start a conversation

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Tetris.... How old are you?

I see that working on teens... but a woman in her 30's would see right through that IMO.


RR.

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OK so first things first.

You were on an online DATING site, and she gave you her SPAM and you started to chat. This already means she saw you as a potential sexual candidate.

To reinitiate contact you need to test the waters here. The thing is you can't know whether she was just tired or if she was genuinely uninterested in you. Therefore hit her up with a message, a random, funny message, maybe something you talked about in your 40 minute conversation, an inside joke, or some roleplay. Whatever. If she replies and she plays along, you're good to go, if she replies but it's not positive, i.e she doesn't play along or doesn't contribute, then it appears she will have lost interest. And lastly she may not reply at all. Which means move on.

But test the waters and see where you're at. If it's positive, then continue to chat and invite her out somewhere. Get that attraction going.

I'm 20 first off, and it's not a tactic for children, it's a way to initiate talking with her in a completely neutral way, it doesn't imply anything what so ever, accept that you want to know the name of a song, you will be able to find out where you stand from her reply. Starting off with an inside joke makes you seem needy, it makes it seem that you need to thrive off a joke from the past to try and initiate a conversation. I'm not saying my advice is right, nor the best for your situation, but I'm saying it's what id do.

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1) Arrange a meeting time and place
2) Go to said place at the agreed upon meeting time
3) Talk to girl, have positive vibe, 'kino'
4) Go to your place to show her something (your cock, but lie and say you want to show her a photo album of your trip last August to Khandahar)
5) Touch vagina
6) Compliment "Mmmm you smell so good!"
7) Touch vagina again
Kiss
9) Remove panties
10) Insert penis
11) Pull out, jizz on her face and/or hair
12) Tell her you have to sleep early cause you have a long day tomorrow
13) Rinse and repeat