There is a girl from uni that I connect with a lot! We go parties together almost every week or every 2.. Lately I have been ignoring her as it's exam time and I can't be asked to waste more time on her.. I didn't ignore her directly, but many times I had excuses and stuff.. Anyway, today she saw me walking to my mates to the underground station and she asked where we were going.. Once we got to the mall, she texted one of the guys in my group asking what he was doing tomorrow.. He told her he was going to a party so she invited herself although he told her the party is like 1 hour and half away from London.. ( he has a gf btw so he will ignore her i reckon) .. After he hang up he told me " this is weird how did she get my number ? and why is she calling me? I never go out with her" Thoughts on this situation guys? Tbh, I can't give a fuck about her. But I want to know, did she do that on purpose to make me jealous or what?

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Either she's really into you and wants to do anything to get to this party to see you or yes she's trying to make you jealous, i've no idea which one

[quote="league"]Either she's really into you and wants to do anything to get to this party to see you or yes she's trying to make you jealous, i've no idea which one[/quote

Hey thanks for replying.. but im not invited to the party.. I won't be there

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She's just looking for a party...but the fact that she went out of her way to get this other guy's number ....it's odd. Very very odd. Either she brought it up, or directly asked a girl for his number. I love how girls think this shit is "OK" between them, but if a guy starts giving a girls number to a group...its a big fucking deal

You need to learn this and embrace it:

ONLY worry about the shit you can control.

The rest: if you can't do anything about it - don't fucking worry about it. What will be - will be, you can only influence the parts within your own grasp.

She called/texted another dude? Big fucking deal. She has a right to do that with ANYONE she pleases. You have that same right. It's that simple.

If you want something with her, and she's ignoring you - she's either an idiot, or she's NOT IN TO YOU. Bail and move on. If you're not sure - invite her over to 'help study'. Make the intention purposefully laden with sexual inuendo. If she comes over, fuck her and move on (date her or dump her). If she doesn't...just move on.

RR

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Exactly what I was thinking!! It's good that someone support what is on my mind

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Funny part is that I invited her over tomorrow to study at my place and she said it is a good idea.. I'm not really bothered about her seeing guys and partying with them or whatever.. She is free to do whatever.. We are not even in a relationship!! I'm only annoyed that she tried to make me jealous by calling my mate when she knew i would beside him.. I told her ill let her know what time on Sunday we can study together.. Now I'm having doubts whether to call her tomorrow or not..

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Whoa... SHE can't MAKE you jealous. Only YOU can make yourself jealous...

Don't allow it. Don't mention it, don't bring it up - it's AFC. If she brings it up... act as if it's as boring as yesterday's losing lotto numbers.

Invite her over, kino escalate and close this bitch!

RR

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Fuck yeah! and that is what will happen tomorrow

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Please report. I'm intrigued as to what will happen.

She called me at 10:30 pm on Saturday night asking if I am still up to meet up to study tomorrow.. She said it would be better if I go to her house instead, so next day I got there around noon. Her mom was at home, so we just started revising some stuff. After that, her mom took her little bro to a swimming class, and we were all alone at home. We did some more work, and then I said I want to take a break as I'm too bored.. Then she told me: " You know on Friday when I called your friend I thought you guys went to have drinks without telling me, and we usually went out together for drinks all the time.. " I told her we only went to buy some stuff from the mall and that is about it..
I told her: "Close your eyes, I promise I won't kiss you.. " She did and I got closer for the kiss and she opened her eyes suddenly so I played it off and kissed her on the cheek.. Then I asked her again to close her eyes and that I promise I would kiss her this time.. She smiled and I made out with her.. After doing that for 15 min, she took my hand and we went to her room.. She took my shirt off, i took her off, started touching her softly, and we had sex.. After we did it 2 times, I asked her if she wants to go for a walk in the park beside her home.. We chatted for a bit, and then I told her I need to leave..
What I learned from this? I should take fucken chances all the time, or else I won't get anything anyway.. Confidence is very important as well.. My english is not the best, but I'm not english so please bare with me

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Score another one for the home team!

Bravo, dude... bravo!

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Cheers bro, I think this is the hottest chick I slept with.. So it is a very good personal achievement for me that I'm proud of ))

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