ayt. so heres the thing. i met up with this gal in the lift tht stays in my flat. we started tlking and i asked her which number she stayed in, and she gave it to me. the next day i went thre and we chilled by the steps and had a nice conversation. l8a on i called and she eventualy confessd tht she was into me. we chilled again a couple of times then suddenly everytime id call her she'd say shes tired, or she'd promise to pitch and not pitch after tht. i kept calling her trying to figure out whats goin on until i eventually left it at tht. i honestly dont knw wht i missed on. she was too fine and i wanted to lay her.

You shouldnt have kept calling her. It made you come off as needy, never ask a girl what's wrong its never pretty. You should have called once and left it at that. Then wait for her to come to you, if not move On

I'd guess she lost interest because you failed to escalate. In general it's better to escalate too quickly than not at all.

right there is where it went wrong. This should say "we chilled one time and I escalated and we had sex." and that sealed the deal.
After she told you she was into you, the very next time you see her you should've made your move and escalate. She was waiting for you to do it until finally she got tired of waiting.

Read on these forums about escalation and kino. It will dramatically improve your confidence so this won't happen next time. Good luck, dude.

thanks for the advice guys. i was a bit skeptical on whther id actually get replies considering the number of ppl who post questions in this forum.... bt seeing tht reply notification on my mail was awesum. this is a site i can depend on after all!8)

now abt escalation.... the next day i tried that, and lets js say it wasnt the smoothest escalation.(hahaha...). she kinda brushed me off. i do admit on coming off as needy now that i think of it. i guess i jst didnt understand why she'd tell me she likes me and do stuff like, that i thot she was officialy in the bag.

the thing is thow, she still tlks to me and looks at me with those eyes. maybe i should do something abt tht?