Is it ok to make mistakes?



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PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 2:54 am 
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Hi guys, I've been studying game for a while but only recently I've started trying to open up more sets and get numbers. But here's the thing: I hv my moments where I do good, but I make some mistakes. Like if I text a girl and we talk but eventually she doesn't txt me back I feel horrible and even depressed - it's like a failed and I feel bad the someone dislikes me.

(keep in mind, she's a flake). But, that's beside the point, is it alright that since I started I'm not as good.


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PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 3:14 am 
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Mental Discipline....you need to stop going to such a negative place mentality when a girl doesn't call. Know your value and you'll know that girl is missing out.


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PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 3:14 am 
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Ask yourself this - does it matter?

Ten years from now - does it matter that some random chick who you thought was cool didn't like you?

Each failure is another example of what didn't work - recalibrate, and move on. Until you don't give a fuck, there will always be anxiety.

The downside is that once you truly don't give a fuck - you don't give a fuck.

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PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 3:18 am 
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Um, okay here's my experience on this. When I was in first grade, 6 or 7 years old, I got in trouble because I kept playing with blocks during class, and didn't get to go to recess that day at school. I was sad, but the teacher came up to me and asked if I learned my lesson. I said yes, then she told me that it wasn't worth being sad anymore if I knew to pay attention next time.

So yes, as most elementary school students realize, making mistakes is okay when you learn from them. Making the same mistake over and over and over is just a sign of ignorance or laziness.

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PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 3:20 am 
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I have often thought about this myself actually. Is an imperfect method with confidence better than a perfect method with less confidence. The conclusion I came to is its okay to make mistakes if you are going to make up for it by being more agressive. A guy that takes 20 shots and hits 10 is better than a guy that takes 8 and hits them all....just a thought


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PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 3:57 am 
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pretty much what everyone is saying is right

If you cant handle failure you have no chance of getting good with woman, might as well pack it in now. No one became a PUA without lots of failures on the road to success.


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PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 4:00 am 
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When she doesn't reply, simply text the other girls you're talking to.

Fuck it, text 3 or 4 of them concurrently (just keep the chat logs in check).


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