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| MetaMonster | PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 2:08 am | |
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Posts: 3 | | Basically I've been fucking a girl from my work. I get the feeling that she wants something more along the lines of a relationship. I'd like to keep going out and playing the field but I'm gonna be working with this girl for another year at least so I don't want things to be awkward. I don't necessarily want to break things off with her, just want to avoid commitment while still having sex with her quite often...any tips?
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| detox75 | PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 3:31 am | |
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Location: Portland, OR | | moderate your contact, manage her expectations. Girls dont generally get upset or phycho unless you have given them false hope, fucking them isn't false hope per se, but acting like a provider and boyfriend then withdrawing that role is false hope.
If you already emotionally escalated and given her false hope just act like you are super busy an de-escalate with her to a comfortable pace. Prevention of false hope and pacing is still the best solution because de-escalation can get messy.
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| RetiredRodeo | PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2012 3:36 am | |
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Posts: 1251 | | Find a way to break it off where it's her idea - but you're still a victim. This will ensure you can re-tap it from time to time in moments of weakness... and especially during the holidays.
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