Hi friends - so quick question -
i recently met a friend of a friend who I kinda like....

basically the first night we met i ended up going back to her house, we were about to have sex then randomly we just both stopped and ended up laying there in eachothers arms talking bout our lives etc - deep connection kinda stuff, was quite romantic really...

In the morning she had a shower n put makeup on and some sexy lingerie and jumped on top of me - i fucked up hard!! as i only realized i should of done something later in the day - my hangover was in full swing and i wasn't in any mood for loving.

Anyway we had breakfast and we texted for about a week...kinda like boyfriend/girlfriend stuff - she started it and i mirorred it (was this a fuck up??)

We were mean't to meet up for day 2 in 3 days on wednesday night as thursday was a holiday but she got sick from a stomach ulcer bursting or something..

Anyway - now she doesn't seem as keen and i get maybe 1 text a week and i've also texted her once with no reply................... She just broke up with her doctor boyfriend about 4 weeks ago and he actually pulled up outside her hotel in the morning as we were leaving for breakfast.

Anyway i saw her for the second time the weekend just gone again in town with the mutual friend who is one of my best friends girlfriend. she grenaded and said "we're leaving - it's a ladies night" and i was left with my friend. She said she'd call me the next day (sunday) - (she never did) then i texted on monday ...so busy lady, wen can we hang out? I felt like a chode doing it...she said she'd call me later in the week and that was the last i heard from her.....

The mutual friend tells me although I'm unsure - that she's into me

I think what i'm trying to ask is - can i salvage the fact that i played right into her little shit tests of lovey dovey texting?? If so do you have any suggestions of what to do? Or should I move on...Either way i'm fine - it's just that she's bordering a 9 in my books, tall skinny blonde and must get hit on all the time. If I can't have her - then at least I wana fuck her!!

She also tells me all her boyfriends have been asians. Any suggestions even minor ones will be greatly appreciated master pua's??

30 mins after leaving her after breakfast - hey hun! thanks for last night and this morning, you're gorgeous, glad I met you. I'll give you a call after work and if you're not sick of me we can do our waffle thing (i told her about these waffles that i love).

me - was just thinking the same thing. sounds good. see you later on then =)

later that night i texted her - hey, you must be feeling like death after working today - i know i do and i just relaxed all day.

she called and we chatted and arranged for meeting up wednesday night.

later that night - her - missing cuddles to be honest!

me in the morning - sorry to say but i didn't...slept like a baby=P but we should definitely make it a regular occurence.

her at the end of the day - sorry hun - been busy all day with work definitely babe! so what are we doing on wednesday!

me - sorry ain't good enough, here i was worrying myself sick all day thinking u didn't like me anymore =P joke. yeh on wednesday do u know "so n so"

her - oh sweets. yeh i love that place

me - let's start there and see where the night takes us?

her - sounds fun, that's us then!

on the day:

her - sorry hun i feel really sick, not up for anything tonight.

her again - really really sorry - can we do it another night?

and again - i'll make it up to you please can we do it another night please!

me - haha of course no worries - what's wrong?

her - just feel like throwing up all the time. going doctors tomorrow.

me - that's cool, hope it's nothing serious - get better soon coz i kinda like you =P

her - you're sweet darl, me too xoxo

her - and what's this "kinda" business.

me - well i don't know you that well mary mary quite contrary (her names mary)

her - well we'll have to change that then huh?

me - most definitely. goodnight!

her - nyt xoxox

few days later

me - mornin sunshine, how are u? up for this wknd?

her - hey hun, nah i'm still really sick - gona go see my second mum this wknd just to get away from everything.

me - that's cool, r n r is important to me too. catchup when you get back sometime.

her - for sure, don't worry babe - look forward to seeing you. i got an injection in my butt today.

me - wow! ow!! was it to the bone marrow?

her - no but i don't think the doc realized my butt's not as cushy as many others.

me - well i hope u get better soon, have a good laugh over the wknd - it's the bestest medicine =P

then no reply!!!

after the weekend on thursday i texted -hey wat doin?

no reply!!!

then saturday just gone - hey hun, goin town tonight, u?

me - eventually yeh, save me a dance

then nothing!!! what did i do??

Dude! People DIE from ulcers bursting and if I recall it's like a minimum SIX week recovery.


give her some space and some time, I bet she feels like shes been hit by a truck lol


Keep in contact, I would say don't text for three days or so them open with something like "something reminded me of you" this will draw her in a little, natural curiosity of what it was that reminded you of her. make sure she's feeling well before trying to get her out again.

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haha true, makes sense i guess! thanks bro, so u don't think i fucked up at all with any of my texts?

salvage this?, there is not nessicarily anything even wrong, just don't be needy, you are starting to get eager for this as you probably don't have anything else comparable going on, just find a few other girls to try to have sex with or devote yourself to another hobby for a while, give her some time to come back around to you, she is giving you hints to back off a bit, you best read the cues

next time an opportunity presents it's self to have sex with her, take that opportunity as when dealing with hot girls they are there for you the one day and gone the next, get the girl when you can, don't wait until you can't and if you have waited to long, don't sweat it or wait around for her to come around, just move on with your life, meet other girls, do other things, and don't count a girl from the past out as a viable option (just not the focus of your life)

It's funny coz I understand what you're saying and you're right. I guess hot bitches do that to a guy, no matter how handsome he is or how much game he's got

Thank you for the words of encouragement bro. I guess I'll go sarging again asap! It's also funny coz I was sarging the friday just gone before i met her on saturday and got a girls no. which reminds me...