This might look like the age old question- Do women go out to meet men..but its not..am asking a different question..I am not talking about clubs or bars or daytime..

Whenever I watch sex and the city or some TV shows, I see women looking to get a bf and going out to parties and other social events for the purpose of meeting men..the girls don't stay together and look eager to talk to other men in the party..

But as silly as it sounds, I have never seen that happen in real life..Whenever I go to parties or other social functions, I dont see women trying to meet men..They just catch up with their female friends, play games or drink alcohol..

they will mind their own business..they never try to get to know you to see where it goes..

My question is about women's attitude and thinking when they go out:

Is it always: 'I will go out tonight, have fun and see what happens...If someone attractive happens to be there, I might talk to him..'

or do they ever think like this: 'I am looking to date and I want a bf..I will go to the party tonight and talk to atleast 4-5 guys and see where it goes..

I know men must approach them...but it always looks like they are interested in sharing stories with other females rather than meet men..as if they have no intention of talking to a guy..what are u guys thoughts on this?

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Yes women go out to meet other men, and yes they think both things you said. yes and yes, there is never a always with women and you should know this by now. You don't see this in real life because your probly at parties with same age groups, or girls that have bfs (its rare for me to find a girl without one anywhere). The thing is if one breaks up with a guy, or theres a 40 yr old at a 30 year olds party then what you want will happen, but girls get AA and have to protect their rep of "not being easy" so they lead a guy to them and make them work for it making it seem as the guy is going after her, which is why you DONT see the girls going after guys.

I think women go out hoping for the most male attention.

It's not really about finding a boyfriend or hooking up necessarily, they just want to get more positive male attention than their friends. If they meet some cool guy and things happen, all the better.

Society has screwed guys over with its set rules - guys do the chasing. Girls certainly do go out looking to get laid at the end of the night, however they expect it to come to them, as society dictates.

Most girls don't approach guys - that's what the game is about. You've got to break into the sets, work the friends, seem interesting and work from there. Sitting back and hoping someone jumps at you isn't going to happen - but if you make an active approach you'll find things can happen quite quickly.

Take last night for example - I zoned in on a girl with her friend. After around 20 minutes I knew I was in there - a while later she left her friend and brought me home. She was just talking to her friend, not looking around for anything - but I broke into the set, got chatting with her, and she was definitely just looking someone to take home - which I wasn't complaining about!

In my city, we have a shopping mall that the PUAs refer to as "The Polygon." That's where we took all the trainees because the level and age of the girls were low, and also to avoid fouling up other locations with newbies.

The place acquired a reputation, and sometimes girls would come there just to see what all this fuss was about.

Aside from that, girls definitely enjoy getting male attention when they go out. Maybe they don't go out with the express thought of getting picked-up or laid, but it's like Hitch said in the movie:
No woman wakes up saying "God, I hope I don't get swept off my feet today!"

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No, not all women go out specifically to meet men, some just want to have fun with their friends, celebrate birthdays etc.

Now, there's a point to make about these types of women... if a guy happens to come along that sweeps them off their feet, they'll be open to getting to know him, hooking up, going on a date, whatever. But this guy has to really get her attention in some way. In fact, he has to be so good that she probably won't meet him, and he most certainley won't be you.

So in summary, women who go out to meet a man, probably will. Women who don't go out to meet a man, will be open to it if the guy is super awesome, but for her, it's a needle-in-a-haystack type of situation. Later down the track when she goes out to genuinely meet someone, her standards will become more realistic.

I see good looking, non-sleazy guys get rejected all the time. Why? They're getting rejected by women who aren't out to meet someone that night. No guy will satisfy a girl like that, at least not that night.

Women know they can get laid anytime of day all day and night, if thats what they want.

I think they go out to flirt, to tease, and to have fun with each other.

But at the same time, I bet they clean their stuff well and smell good when they go out, and they will wear makeup.

If they didnt care about male attention, they would go out without makeup.

So SOMETHING is brewing. Maybe they like to leave the door open in case they spot someone they like, but are not banking on it.

Prolly how it should be for guys too.

Not specifically to meet guys because it just happens anyway. When it comes to sex, men are the sellers and women are the buyers.

If you walked into a car dealership, how hard is it to "attract" a salesman? Maybe you want to buy, maybe not, maybe you will with the right sales pitch, ...who knows? But one thing is for sure; the option is always there.