basically we dated for two years and a little bit, broke up and still decided to be f buddys, we stopped talking for a little bit after that and she gets a new boyfriend. she gets angry with me though people spreading shit and then a couple weeks later they break up. now we haven't spoke in some time so is there any way to start being an f buddy again after a couple months of not talking?

Don't... sleeping with her will bring back memories she is ex for a reason. Did you game other girls ever since you broke up?

An ex is an ex for a reason... Sometimes we prolong things a little while because of wanting sex. Either be her boyfriend and be with her, or leave her alone to move on with her life. There are plenty of other people out there.

If you haven't spoken in some time then likely you've already missed your window to repair things. Even if you do become F buddies again, eventually she is going to leave you for another relationship. So why not take charge of your life? You make the decision you are done with her because you are a man, and you deserve better!

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yeah, thing is where i live going out is just a cock fest. about 15 other guys circling any girl and bitch shields are high, just cant find the effort when there is that much competition. also some there are one or two girls in my collage i started practicing my game on but i cant really transition from negging into building more attraction and getting away from just joking around. guess its just the easy option when i think about it.

All you are giving us are excuses... You are on this forum I am assuming to become better with women. Naturally, all of us as humans tend to take the path we are most comfortable with. In this case its easy to go back to what you've been doing than to explore new things. However, getting better with things requires you to get out of your comfort zone.

Whether it's exercising for the first time, riding a bike, driving a car, or getting better with girls. You are going to have to push yourself out of your comfort zone. You'll go out and you will fail repeatedly but you will get better. I understand your local club scene may suck but there are other places to meet women. On campus, malls, coffee shops, gas stations, grocery stores, meet up groups, etc etc.

Point is I'm calling you out to action. Are you here to get better with women and improve your life OR are you here to do what is comfortable for you and get the same results you've always gotten?

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

Send a few texts here and there, see how she responds, but that's where the effort should stop. Anything more is too much. In the meantime, get off your ass and find some new ass.

Thats a perfect example of scarcity mentality. It's not gonna help your game, expecially not on the long run. Do you really think you can't fuck any other girl?? Bullshit.

Go and fuck other girls, not her, she is an ex for a reason.