So my ex broke up with me about 3 weeks ago. I was afc and phoned her a bunch of times trying to understand why? She obviously got pissed that I kept phoning. So I stopped and agreed with the break up about 3 days later. In our relationship she was totally in love with me, she had said "I love you" first and everything and really meant it. Her friend were even telling me that I better not fuck up. LOL (This relationship was about 3 months in total)

So I am obviously missing her, she initiated texting like 3 hours after I agreed to the break up. I responded later that night like 4 hours later just responding. She doesn't text back so I text her first like 2 days later, we start texting for a bit. Then I go no contact on her for a few days, then we start texting again. This cycle repeats a few times. So I eventually go NC on her for about a week and in this week, I have random girls posting on my facebook wall saying we should hangout, text her and all this stuff.

So I text my ex after about a week of NC with all this stuff on my facebook wall. So I said I missed her, she didn't say anything really. But in the previous times of texting back and forth she said she had missed me etc. So right after I tell her I missed her, she gives me the biggest **** test of all time. I handled it really well I think?

She was like, "so you've gotten over me then? " So I got some advice to not look afc or anything. So I said flat out "keeping my options open "

So from there she went into rage jealousy mode and I went afc as one could get. I know that was bad to go from all the power to none at all. So I texted her sorry saying what I did wrong (the next day). Then I phoned her to say sorry (she said that she was over that already) So I texted her about 3 days later and asked if she was "over me" essentially. She said yup and I said ok. Then I went afc again asking for a second chance.

So what do I do again to regain attraction and trust ?

You move on. You stop asking for second chances, you stop contacting her. You stop replying to her, you stop apologizing.

Then, when you're finally over her, she will come crawling back and you will wonder why you ever dated her in the first place.

You may not believe this now, but you will in time.

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I forgot that this was a month of close relations then we had to go long distance for the last 2 months... I can get back into close proximity if this escalates again because I will ask for a trade (I play a sport where you get traded) so I can move back close to her again.