So I have been on two dates with this girl, first date I k-closed, she was super interested, talking about future plans. Then I don't ever hear from her really, whatever shes busy I think to myself. I txt her set up a second date, she immediatly complies. Once again we have a great time, and she was initiating kino, there was obvious mutual attraction. I suggest we go watch movies at my place, she said she has a rule after 3 dates she will, cause she knows what will end up happening. I say that cool, end up kissing, she suggests future plans. Once again no contact, I hit her up about 4 days later asking if she wants to go hiking before drinking on cinco de mayo (she suggested I party with her on it before), she says shes really sick and doesn't even know if she will be able to go Saturday. Now I know for a fact she is sick, shes been bitching about it on FB and had the sniffles on our second date. I end up going to the club we both frequent Friday to practice opening sets, and run into her. She seemed a little surprised, said she was leaving soon, I said to call me when she feels better so we can do something, she agreed, and we hugged (she was sick and around her friends, so I didn't push a kiss). I found out she was out the next night too, which is cool, just am really thrown off by her behavior, and still has not initiated contact with me at all.

I told myself I will freeze her out until she contacts me. Is this a good idea? Also, anyone have any insight on the behavior in general. She does have a job, but its nothing ridiculously busy.

The thing is you really can't know what's going on here. The only thing to do here is to text her in a couple days, tease her (do not mention about bumping into her), act as if nothing had happened, and just tell her to join you somewhere again for round 3.

If she still says no, fuck her.