Pretty much every time i go out to clubs and bars, i manage to k/#close at least 1 girl. But the morning after I struggle with what to say to her, especially if we didn't actually talk that much on the night, big big problem in loud bars.

eg. last night managed #/k-close a HB8 that i recognised from college, she came up to me and said the same. we didn't speak much at all because the club was so unbelievable busy. so how can i initiate a good convo via text?she enver told me her last name so FB inst an option SPAM..

the club environment with the fast hookup is the hardest scenario to get a real emotional connection for a callback. The chick probably only remembers that she kissed some guy who could be cool and it was fun, but she doesn't really know you from a hole in the wall. Thus she really isn't going to be responsive the next day.

You have two good options to change your results.

1. Try to go for a stronger emotional connection with here which will provide enough connection so she will want to see you again.

2. try to pull her out of the club and have sex with her that night.

I prefer #2, but you can always try both. The fast kiss close normally leads back to no call backs btw.

yup, pretty much it. you can usually tell if you are going to see her again. and it is not about what you say the next day, but how strong emotional connection you make the night you meet her.

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I have to return some videotapes...

well, so far so good, she replied positively to my first text and we've sent bout 5 or 6 messages to each other.

Should i casually bring up the subject of meeting up? or just straight up ask her?

ask her to meet you for something fun and give her a couple of time options, you haven't created much rapport, and you arnt going to accomplish that over text, best to be decisive and close the loop.