Hey guys I was just wondering what the best way to bring up the issue that my friend is bad mouthing my friend group and I when he is trying to talk to chicks. He's even more new to PU than I and I don't think he realizes that doing that makes all of us including him to look bad.

He is a pretty sensitive guy so I don't want to hurt his feelings and all of that but I want my buds and I to succeed. Thanks so much for the advice guys and have a great weekend!

He's your friend. Just be honest with him. Usually when people are nervous they tend to do things without realizing it. It's probably a part of his insecurity. I've had friends that have put down others unconsciously when talking to girls.

My friends do the same thing when we go out to the bars / clubs together. They are not into PUA and don't know any better.

Lately, when my one friend has done this, I have LOUDLY pointed out to him in front of everyone gathered "Hey _____, when you badmouth your friends in front of new people you meet, not only do you make your friends look bad, but YOU look like a douche bag too!!!"

Hey, since he is already blowing out the scene I may as well point it out in an embarassing way (these are good friends of mine, not just "wings"). We all pick on each other all the time (as most good friends do). I have had talks that we are not to do that shit when the primary objective is to meet girls and to save it for when we are just out having fun and hanging out, etc.

Hey thanks for the advice guys both are looking like pretty solid options. Have a great weekend!