I've been getting calls and texts from women, who "heard from someone..."? I've been getting attacked as a scoundrel, and I don't even live in the area. Creeps me out a little when some random girl in a random-ass town knows who I am, and has heard something. And the rumors aren't very good. How should I respond to the rumors and slander? I'm not a player and don't go for trash, I go for who I feel is high quality. But the rumors I've been hearing are slightly based on true events, except blown out of proportion, making me sound like a villain. It's been happening frequently. How should I respond to the attacks. They're usually partly based on truth, but people don't see it all and jump to the worst conclusion, so they think I'm a reckless scoundrel. How should I respond to the rumors and attacks?

Just play around with it if it isn't true. Fighting rumors that are not true will only result in you exerting more energy than needed and you don't need the approval of anyone.

Ahhahaha, I love that you used the word "scoundrel" . You must have a funky way of talking in real life.

The short answer is, ignore them. Why would you care what other people think? If a girl emphasises how "bad" you're supposed to be over and over again, just say: "Yeah, it's true. I'm a scoundrel and a villain. I don't know how I haven't been arrested yet."

Read up on "disqualification."

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The best way to prepare yourself from the terror and infamy of attacks on your reputation is to set-up a solid bunker of defense through intensive nonchalance and engage in a counter-offensive of non-affective humor.

Get on a project of a Patriot-like missile defense system where you treat each rumor and attack aimed at you as nothing but pebbles in the air that quickly disintegrate into thin dust when you smartly bombard these with targeted indifference by letting these rumors enter in one side of your ear and quickly exit in your other ear thus leaving no bad residues in your memory. Treat this as an umbrella strategy to deflect the rain of insult and bad rap that you get from a few women. The best defense is an offense. Use humor, the non-insulting kind, that says, you don't care.

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