Hey guys, I've been away for a pretty long while, but I'm back once more!

So here's the thing. I've met a girl 2 weeks ago and somehow everything felt right from the start **throws up** anyway, we've been actively messaging back and forth and I noticed she was really interested, so we met at my place last friday.

Everything went very well, however the clock (not cock) and LMR held me back from a lay. We got as far as tops off and some touching the special place if you get my feel. She however didn't want sex on a first date and it was hard enough to get her shirt off...

No biggy though since we were ganna meet up this week, but as you can guess, that didn't happen. She did respond to my messages, but it went kinda downhill since sunday. And it finally came to her ignoring my texts yesterday evening and this morning.

Even after the signs that she's still interested, it somehow degraded to a level that I find it kinda weird, especially since it went really well before.

I usually don't really care about girls acting this way, because I just go out again and pick up other chicks, but it's different with her. And no it's not oneitis, I still pick up other girls...

So, has anyone had this fucked up feeling before and what did you do about it? I'm thinking about just giving it a rest and calling her sunday again, hopefully the silence will cure this...

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Hey dude, it pains me to read this. Hate it when girls do stuff like that man.

One thing is for sure, she likes you. It's just her thinking that's getting in the way, that is my guess at least.

You should act as if it's no big deal when you do get in contact again. Don't text her for a day or two, and then reinitiate the contact with her.

Bait her, test the waters by sending a cocky/funny text, an inside joke you guys had or something, and see if she responds. If she does, and it's positive (she plays along, she puts one of those freaking smileys in there or something), you can then tell her to join you to do something again.

Sounds a little bit like buyer's remorse. Therefore testing the waters, I feel, is the way to go, to know whether or not she's still willing to talk to you. I'm guessing you know what to do from then on, right?

Good luck man.

Just because you pick up other girls doesn't mean it isn't oneitis, son.

When shit like this happens to me, I say/text (if the phone isn't getting picked up) something like:
"Hey girl. What is this? I like you, and I'll be bummed out if the nice girl I had fun with last Sunday turns out to be so rude she doesn't even respond to texts."

After all, she IS being rude - call her out on it. Not necessarily this harshly (calibrate), but let her know you won't put up with this crap in a soft but firm manner.

For the record, stop texting. It puts very little pressure on a girl to respond and if she's on the fence/unsure about you, and is overall a pussy move.

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Thanks for the tips guys. I did what I thought would be useful and I just ignored it for 2 days. Called her after, but she was somewhere where she couldn't pick up. Got back into texting with her.

She wanted to meet up again, even though she was less enthusiastic as before, but whatever. She's busy with her finals and wants to meet up after, which is in about one and a half week. Sadly I can't wait that long and just try to meet up earlier. I guess time will tell, meanwhile I'll just spend my time on other girls.

Hopefully she'll make an exception and show the fuck up at my house party next week. O well I'll just invite other girls as well...could be fun, unless they all show up!!

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Get her out again ASAP, I'd kino with her to show you can escalate but not go all the way. Tease her a bit, get the sexual vibe up a bit with the inference being you're a guy who can escalate but also restrain yourself. She's a bit slow to warm so I wouldn't push things too much trying to fuck her whenever the two of you are around or it might confirm that you're just out for a lay. Build the sexual tension, have fun with it meaning get her motor going but then back off a bit (a kinda sexual push/pull).