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PostPosted: Wed May 02, 2012 12:14 pm 
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OMG! What's the meaning of this, I've met this new girl two days ago HB9, I Gamed her up to A2 (Mystery Method) I escalate as fast as I can. Throw some routines, DHV Myself, Neg / tease her, Kino and she seems to be so much digging my stuff hahaha! she even tries to get a rapport on me and She's showing me massive IOIs. I did not number close her because that would made me look interested to her because we go on the same office but she's at different department :) Honestly I'm not ugly LOL and other girls that I'm gaming compliments me on my good looks.

Today, we met again going on my way home we had eye contact I slightly smile. I saw her conscious look on her face. I told her, "you again" then I smiled she smiled and I turn around and went to the bathroom because I really need to pee. I catch her again at the exit but I saw her walking so fast as if she's being chased. It's so fast Just like a ninja. She's basically trying to ignore me :lol: I did not try to catch her that would make me look needy. My concern is not about her ignoring me because I don't fucking care if she rejects me, I'm her prize. It's her loss. I have other sets to game. What my concern is basically we go in the same office, haha. It would feel awkward when we bump on each other again. and some of my colleagues knew it hahaha. Help guys. Can you assess the situation, Is she just shit testing me? :lol: need replies as fast as you can I might see her again tomorrow. :wink:


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PostPosted: Wed May 02, 2012 1:10 pm 
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Mate you're just being super paranoid. She prob wasn't running away from you so just chill out. Seems like she just had somewhere to be.

And you pretend to not care but i can tell that every single interaction you have with her is the complete opposite. You smile at her, engage in conversation with and generally seem to give a shit.

Things NEVER have to be awkward. Trust me. They only get awkward if you allow them to be so as long as you never acknowledge any negative vibes between the two of you there with cease to be such vibes.

What i want you to is generally not give a shit. Yes greet her occasionally but majority of the time i want you to just walk past her and do your own thing. Make her know that you're not going to chase her. But when you do talk to her make sure it isn't just a "hi and bye" situation. Make sure that if you are going to engage with her that you are able to have a proper conversation otherwise don't bother.

And remember to always maintain the "I really don't care about you, but im bored and have nothing better do so i'll talk to you" mindset. It works all the time. And trust me on this because I went in for a job interview and my recruiter was this HB9 burnette lady. I end up charming her the entire time she interviewed me that by the end of it i told her on my way out "ay you have email, when you send me the job details why don't you add your number to the bottom" and believe it or not by the time i got home there it was.

And i've been meeting up with her ever since. It never has to be awkward and you are still not done with her yet so don't loose hope. Be cool and dont give a shit.

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PostPosted: Wed May 02, 2012 1:12 pm 
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In between all the terminological fluff words that we tend to use here, it sounds like you're doing things the right way, man! Maybe keep this up for a little while, but get her number and set up a date if you want to see her outside of work. Think of something fun you can do that is not related to work at all and invite her out. From there, you can do all of the fun escalation stuff and bring her home. Make sure she realizes you're sexually interested. Ignoring her might indicate disinterest or a want for distance. You've got to carefully walk that line.


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PostPosted: Wed May 02, 2012 1:35 pm 
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Thanks for the replies guys... I just realized that I'm thinking too much of the outcome.

I forgot what I read from MM "Process over Outcome" :)

Now I'm too excited for tomorrow. Thanks guys! :wink:


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PostPosted: Wed May 02, 2012 2:39 pm 
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you should read mystery method again so you actually understand it,

a2 female to male interest, ends after 3 ioi's, if she has been complimenting you and asking you questions, guaranteed you have a fuck load of a lot more ioi's then 3, you should be able to make it into comfort the first time you meet a girl,

you have to show interest, that is the way it works...

a3 male to female interest, when she shows 3 indicators of interest, you start qualify and show interest back, let her know you are interested in her romantically through qualification

mystery method is a pickup system designed to meet a girl and have sex with her within 2 days, or after 7 hours

you should re-read the method until you understand it, the dick has to leave the pants at some point, you don't just neg neg neg, dhv dhv dhv, and a girl whips out your dick and sucks it, you escalate and mutually want to fuck each other

it goes in order

you open her (a1)

you have fun with her and tell her interesting stories until you have 3 reasons to believe she likes you rather then hates you (a2)

you start setting preferences for what you are looking for in a girl, and let her know that she meets these preferences and that is why you like her romantically *you show interest in her* (a3)

c1 connection (commonalities/grounding)
c2 trust (open up to her, invest in her and show vulnerability)
c3 intimacy

s1 foreplay
s2 lmr
s3 sexual relationship

you have to stop over analyzing this shit so hard, if you have enough compliance for a girl to give you a hug, you probably can get her phone number (this means absolutely jack fuck all by the way, a phone number doesn't mean she will have sex with you, and the are really easy to get from most girls that you have talked to for longer then 5 minutes)

you have to drop your ego, and just move things forward, it is a yes or a no, regardless of the game you run, she is either available or is not available, you should find out sooner rather then later and just ask her out to do something with you outside of work


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Agreed it sounds like you have a basic understanding of the method but you may be a little fuzzy on actually where you are at in the process. This is not all that uncommon for most that follow MM. As stated you are really at A3 it sounds like and approaching C1. Don't overthink it, and good luck.

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