So when I open I sort of get a little anxiety, I have no idea what to say and where to go after that. If you guys could give me some tips on how to do this and what to say it would be great.

Well....if you haven't already heard:

The opener does not matter.

The delivery matters, the energy, but yea what you really say to a girl when you first meet her does fuck all...I've walked up to a girl

and said holy shit thats some terrible fucking food. She was not eating anything...she had no idea what I said...she said What?

I said nothing hey whats your name smile and shake her hand.

She didn't ask for mine back (lack of interest) but I just kept going. 60 years of challenge (this is a method and a PUA) says this is a good indicator of if a girl is even interested. Fyi, if she doesn't ask back she's not. He claims all you need is a little interest based on your "presence."

But she shook my hand and I just actually didn't say anything after that. I let the girl talk. It's hilarious but I kept dead quiet while looking at her into her eyes (seductively without trying too hard) and then I just let it build and build and she got so freaked out she just started talking about me.

Usually I don't DO this. I would make a fun guess as to where shes from...and she'll talk and I'll go for her hands.

Pink, I have been there, and what I suggest is really simple. You should write down ten qualities you want in your dream girl (That are not physical), and when you talk to a girl, your mission should be to see if she has those qualities you are looking for.

I'll give you an example. One of my qualities is an active lifestyle.

Me: So what do you for fun?

Her: Well I like to go hiking, and am in a swimming league (She passes).

or

Her: Oh nothing much (She fails).

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I went on a night out recently and I was a bit drunk and I was asking people "What is your zombie apocalypse escape plan?" and I was quite frankly amazed at how many fun conversations that started. Especially if you're like "I've got a really important question... A life or death situation..."

I was at a kind of alternative place where people were more likely to be into zombie films, but if you look at the plethora of zombie films, comic books and TV series, having a zombie contingency plan is almost like a part of popular culture. It's fun anyway, even if they look at you like you're some basement masturbator.