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Yeah, 3 set, two 8's and one 9. 9 is the target. i'm saying the 9 assumes naturally she is the target cos all night everyone is all over her and she has more social value in the room than the two 8's. All 3 are displaying IOI's, but the 8's are displaying stronger ones (touching, strong eye contact, just more flirtatious) and the 9 (more verbal flirtation and trying to compete with 8's). Im obvos giving 8's more attention at this moment in time, however i want to shift it to the 9 smoothly. Now apply questions above to this scenario.
This is essentially the process in reverse. ^^^^^^ the best way to view this is in reverse and with a reversal of rolls.
This scenario is based on assumptions. Women in sets do not operate like this. Just like with men, women have a pecking order. They have the dominant one and the rest. If they are together in a set there is a good chance they are friends, women tend to be very loyal especially with when it comes to meeting new people. In the case of all three liking someone they have just met and showing interest, they would generally figure out which of the 3 likes you more and let her pursue you.
In general, female friends will never pursue the same target, especially at the same time. If you do not make your intentional target known shortly after approaching the set, there is a good chance you will be pushed onto the one that likes you the most.
To eliminate this you must make your intentions clear ASAP. Make the one you want know it, keep strong eye contact with her, even when you are talking to the others. Make your intentions clear right away, then you can charm the group. Once it is clear, the more you impress the other two, the better chances you have of obtaining your target.
Now with the roles reversed, if you and two of your friends are hanging out and a woman approaches that all three of you find very attractive. If she makes her intentions clear that she wants your friend, the two of you are going to let it happen, saying stuff like you lucky bastard, i hope he hits that, she's smoking hot....etc etc.
Friendship code is universal and transcends gender.