Hey guys,

So basically there is this girl who I've been friends with now for over 6 months-ish and we had in the passed (jan-feb) a relationship but it was open but we soon stopped but stayed close. Since then we've been on the rocks ever since really and while we've both been seeing other people and having fine times, we both have thought about getting back together at one point or another just not at the same times.

Recently when i told her that i did want to try again, she said shortly after that she wanted to stop being friends/fwb/whatever and that we shouldn't talk but we get the train together most days for school. Even though this happened she still comes over and tries and talks to me even though she wants to stop and off the train she doesn't talk to me because she thinks that I've been annoying and a dick somehow (honest to god i have no clue why) after talking to her tonight she thought that I didn't want to talk either when i've just been quiet but nonetheless she still rejects my offers to talk on the train as a planned thing.

I know that recently we've been fighting and that she probably has started to picture me as a person who just makes her unhappy maybe but every train trip she's laughing and having an alright time.

Just wanted to get some advice from everyone here about this because i want this to be sorted and there to be a resolve...

Thanks for any help/advice

S.king

Just some info about her, she's a bit of a lead on for guys and she likes the attention but it's been different with me because we're actually pretty close and had a good thing but she's still stuck up and likes the guy's who are gonna dump her or cheat on her but she still cries about it...

It sounds like she's in control and youre being too nice about it, i'd forget about her if i was you, if she likes you she'll come back once she see's you're happy without her