I've always been loud but i recently started thinking about what i actually say and how i converse with people. I am not liking what i am hearing, i want to be able to be one of those people that can talk straight from the off and have fun and interesting conversations that don't die down quickly.

I don't need books on how to chat to girls, i just need books or something to generally improve my conversational skills.

I don't lack confidence, i can talk to people but i feel the conversation doesn't really go anywhere. I see my friend talking to someone and the whole crowd gathers, i have tried analysing what he does but i have a different personality to his.

So i just need something that will help me turn into a great conversationalist. Thanks