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| Roberto101 | PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2012 8:41 am | |
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Posts: 18 | | Should I be aggressive: put my arm around her, initiate conversation and text, sit next to her, etc
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Should I be passive: Wait for her to initiate conversation, wait for her to sit next to me
im really confused
If i be aggressive i come off as: needy, desperate, she is the prize, i'm the pursuer
If i be passive i come off as: not confident, not desperate or needy, i am the prize and she is the pursuer
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| Every_Woman's_Dream | PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2012 8:53 am | |
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Posts: 132 | | If you're aggressive you should come off as dominant. You want to always appear like you're in control, thats your poker face. Passive just sounds like your passing up opportunities, like passing up a wide open three on the court...does that make sense? If you got the shot you should be taking the shot
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| Every_Woman's_Dream | PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2012 9:04 am | |
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Posts: 132 | | you make sure that you are in control by having a Plan, because when you have a plan you know what you are going to do and you have control and confidence in that
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| Tr@veler | PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2012 10:43 am | |
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Location: London | | Aggressive without apologizing. That's what you need to be.
You can be aggressive without being needy. What I like to do is be forward once I know she is interested. I say stuff like you're cute or I wanna kiss you. But firs I'll put my arm around you.
You have to come across at one point as interested in her, but dominant. She needs to know you like her at some point. And at the same time you convey the attitude of I'm coming after you, and if you blow me off I don't car, but I will try and there is nothing you can do about it.
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