So tonight I went to a friends house for her birthday. There was another girl there and in fact they are both really good friends so, I had no plans on hitting on them. How ever they were drunk and I decided this would be good to practice my game but with out closing. I tried as many things as I could with them like negs, funny stories even ignoring the one that was closest to me the whole night. All I can say is that if we didn't know each other I would have fucked the shit put of them. There was so many opportunities to kiss close it wasn't funny but I didn't go for it. As I said they're very good friends of mine however can't wait to try it on bitches !

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Poonslay

nice! now you gotta go out there and try what works with random girls at clubs

There is no success in what you did. You did not close. You left it hanging in there somewhere. You did not fail, but you did not try hard to get successful.

The way i see it wasn't his goal to close them, because they are his close friends? And if his goal was to test game on his friends it can be defined as succes.


to the OP:
Good job mate, keep it up

If you are happy about what happened, it was a success. Success depends on your goal, thats all

If your goal is just to approach a girl in a mall, no matter the outcome, and you did it, you were successfull ^^

Everyone here is trying to be a PUA or get better at this game. Having said that every person should have a goal to f-close sooner or later in their game. The goal here is to get laid, and from there, if you want a ONS or a GF, its up to you. If a APUA is thinking that just by hitting or negging on some girls, he will be successful, he should change this mindset and try getting bigger goals. Realistically speaking, success here comes from three types of closes, n-close, k-close & f-close. The big success would be getting f-close, and ever bigger one would be a GF. Again, unless you are getting laid, it really doesnt count as a success in this journey. Everyone should get more motivated and work really hard and really have bigger goals in becoming a PUA. Again, you may not want to be a PUA, but just a GF, thats ok. Bottom line is, always aim higher, have bigger goals in life.

Yes, I agree with you. But, he should have bigger goals here, and should not count as little things as succes in this journey. Why? He should think of this as little steps that he accomplished and have other big ones to cover soon. I have done that, I have approached a girl in the mall, but did not n-close, so I wasn't successful. People, try to get the big success here. Keep working, and do not settle down for these little ones. But, if you keep on winning at these skirmishes, then eventually you will win the battle and then finally the big war. But, you should not make your entire goal to just win the skirmishes. All APUA should think bigger.

I completely agree with you, set higher goals, that way although not all are reached you still do a lot more than you would, if your goals would be lower.

keep up the good work man. you're gonna pull Megan Fox in no time