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PostPosted: Sat Apr 28, 2012 3:40 am 
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Ok so my first night in the game two nights ago at the bar (My 21st bday) I number close this HB, I had attraction and DHV. Next day I invite her to party with me last night and she doesent respond, tonight however she invites me to go out with her but I cant I have to work. I told her I cant make it tonight and that we should get together this weekend.

So is she just trying to control the frame? Is this a shittest? She hasnt replied and I'm new to the game. Any input would help.


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Ok so my first night in the game two nights ago at the bar (My 21st bday) I number close this HB, I had attraction and DHV. Next day I invite her to party with me last night and she doesent respond, tonight however she invites me to go out with her but I cant I have to work. I told her I cant make it tonight and that we should get together this weekend.

So is she just trying to control the frame? Is this a shittest? She hasnt replied and I'm new to the game. Any input would help.
This is a rare case of the "busy's" - it's where the girl may actually have been to busy to actually respond.
Try not blowing things up to far, women have 10-20 guys texting them per day she may have missed yours; just continue gaming like normal

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Could be. How did you ask her was it text, on phone, email, facebook, in person?

I'd simply act as nothing happened and if you want to chill with her tonight by all means accept the invite gladly.


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 28, 2012 6:08 am 
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She wants to see you, that's all you need to know.

Game can definitely be a double edged sword. The techniques are powerful if you use them right, but you can also get bogged down in overthinking situations when there's no need to.

One healthier mentality than filtering everything through "is this a shit test" is "what do I want to happen, and how do I maximise the chances of it occuring".

With regards to planning your day 2, having a fun event/place to check out etc that you both will enjoy, and inviting her to join you, is a good way to go.


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 28, 2012 5:27 pm 
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Cool great advice guys. I will continue as normal, I really didn't actually talk to her that much when I got her number because I was literally talking to everyone in the place. But she gave me so many IOI's I asked. Thanks for the advice, right now I'm just thinking of something better to open with besides. "Hey, I'm going to X tonight wanna join?"


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 28, 2012 5:29 pm 
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Oh, and we have only communicated by text, I called but no response so I texted her but I got no reply until later that night.


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