Met this girl 2 weeks ago and F-closed her on the 2nd date. The problem is that she let me know multiple times that she's not just into me for fun but really likes me, like for a potential LTR.

How do you handle this? She is nice, I like having sex with her and making her feel good but I don't want anything more than that. She asked me if it was okay to meet me in public this evening while I'm out with my friends (meeting other women too). How to tell her I don't actually want to see her in public or do relationship stuff? I don't want to lie, as you have to leave girls better than you found them so please help me out here.

PS: She knows I am seeing other girls, as I've basically told her this once or twice.

I'm getting to the point myself currently...

I think the key is never lead her on, never let her think it is more than it is, that kind of thing.

I don't have experience in this area, or know the theory, but I'd imagine just being up front and unapologetic about your needs is the way to go.

Basically told her this, or actually told her this?

There is a difference, you know. Women as a rule tend to see things as they wish they were rather than how they are, meaning it is inherent in their nature to assume that just because you aren't interested in a relationship now doesn't mean you won't be later.

You need to be blatantly forthright about your intentions and tell this girl that your relationship will never be anything more than what it is right now. You can even use those words if you say them right; the important thing is to be as honest as possible.

If after that point you continue to notice signs she is becoming emotionally attached, it would be a good idea to end or at least suspend your hookups until she can disengage a little.

It's just not worth the drama to let it continue toward what can only be an unhappy ending.

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Tell her you are emotionally unavailable for a relationship, tell her that you really like hanging out with her and being intimate but it cannot go any further, it would simply be unfair to her. You are being honest with her because you respect her as a person and feels she deserves the truth. Then say you will understand if she wishes to slow things down or stop them all together. You can respect that and completely understand.

She will have no choice but to respect your statement and at the same time she should not be offended at all.

It will all be out in the open. Be for warned, if a woman is really into you she will say she accepts your terms but still want more. So be prepared to slowly detach yourself from her, If she complies to the initial terms and wishes to continue.

By putting it out there in a respectable manner, she will have no choice but to respect you. There may be sad feelings eventually ( her) but there will be no animosity. Thus making it easier for her to get over it all.

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Thanks a million guys, will do. So I should just bring up the topic and tell her very direct? Will do this next time I set up a meeting where I am alone with her.

She is now basically constantly texting me (or friends of me of which she know I am with at that moment) if I am coming over to the club she is in, quite annoying actually..