are there any post on here about shit tests and how to catch them and react to them.....because im having a bit of trouble getting the concept

Basically, a shit test is anything she says to knock you off your game. It's kind of her way of prodding you to see if you turn into a bitch boy when she shows some kind of disapproval or jealousy-inspiring behavior.

"You're kind of a jerk."

You can reply with "I'm sorry, I didn't mean it." And be a bitch boy.

Or you can say something that implies you're unconcerned that she things so, "You're kind of a pansy."

The best way to pass them is not to react, in my opinion. When I see something that's obviously a shit test, I usually just pause and raise an eyebrow at her, then continue the conversation with the rest of the group. If you're deliberate and confident enough to hold out the awkward pause, it can actually be very funny.

Does that help?

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Shit test is all about how you interpret them when they are thrown at you.. I think the term "Shit Test" should be tossed out because it give the whole thing a negative connotation.

Just laugh at them and change the subject man.. She just wants a reaction..

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Shit tests are the ultimate IOI. Women don't screen men they're not attracted to.

In girl code, they all roughly translate to, "Are you really as awesome as you seem to be?" And the proper response is always something that subcommunicates, "Yes, now let me dazzle you with how smooth I am."

You can absurdify them ("Of course I'm a player, can't you tell by my 24 inch wheels and gold pimp chain?"), laugh at them or simply ignore them. The point is not to be phased by them.

And really, if you are a man with quality confidence, you won't be.

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ok cool. ive been observing myself now after finding this community and how i acted before i found it... and soe of the ways that people are telling me to react to things and how to act are how i acted before. like for example i reply to shit tests in the exact way im being told to and i did it before ever finding this place. and also before finding this place i already acted cocky funny and what not

so i think may be somewhat of a natural..... but that doesnt mean i cant improve


thanks guys