My friend and I are deciding to go out to the mall this Friday and we have no idea what we can say or do because we're both huge AFC's. If there's anyone who can give us a heads up on what usually happens on the first day, or some openers, then that would help us out a lot, thanks.

1. If you regularly go to this mall at least once a week, build propinquity with the mall employees. Mall employees like store managers, sales ladies, service crews and so on should be sarged differently than mall guests or customers. Keep your sarging under 4 minutes (there's a science to this). Better yet, make your sarges just between 2 to 3 minutes. Go to the Approaching and Opening section of this forum and you'll see loads of gold in there. No need to repeat what's already in there.

If you can sarge mall employees once a week or four times a month with 2 to 3 minutes for each girl, the date or number close will be easy as pie on the 5th week. You'll have lesser flakes. You'll get the kino. You'll get the kiss close. And eventually, you'll get the fuck close. Propinquity builds comfort. Comfort with attraction leads to the f-close.

2. Body language, the reading and displaying aspects of it, will make or break your sarges. Communication is mainly non-verbal. It's not the opener or pick up line routine. It's how you say these.

3. When sarging mall guests and customers, crash and burn. You will not get another opportunity to see these people unless they themselves regularly go to this mall.

4. The number closes are useless if you haven't built enough attraction and comfort. It's a total waste of time and phone bills unless you see these number closes for what they are-- for practice.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

Some easy mall game that worked for me:

Step 1: You and your wing go into a "mutual" clothing store for men and women.

Step 2: Go to a clothing rack in close proximity to an HB.

Step 3: Find 2 shirts that you like, hold them up to your wing and exclaim: "Hey which one do you think I should go with? I really like 'x shirt' but 'y shirt' makes me sexy too!"

Step 4: Let wing reply and turn to HB "Hey what do you think?"


Literally used this four step process with a lot of energy (helps if you're already dressed nicely) and the girl's friend come back into the store after they had left so that she give me her friend's number.