I´ve been reading mystery method and I find it great, but there are some cultural points that I got really curious and want to know if it is still applied in USA.
in mystery´s book he says that the first needs to be only with the lips you can´t use the tongue, because when you use ongue it means you´re trying to have sex with the girl, se you need to slow down the things, and I also watched mystery´s tv serie and another point that I noticed was the fact of the guys only shake hands with the girl when he first introduce himself or is introduced by someone else to the girl.
here in brazil it´s kinda diferent, just when you meet the girl you give 02 kisses on each cheeck, and when you kiss her in the mouth for the first time you already use the tongue, and don´t think the girl is whore, just when the kiss begins she will be already putting the tongue in your mouth, I even met some girls in my grandmother´s countryside and I was saying to my cousing, hey when I meet these girls around here I have only to shake their hands right? and then my cousin said, this way the girls will think you´re a fag.
of course, it´s something cultural so we can´t discuss, what is applied here, not all the times is applied there, but I really want to know how is the system with the girls there in USA, or even in other countries.


thanks!!!!

Honestly, who gives a fuck how you greet and kiss???
Do you want to give a stranger two pecks do so, if there's mutual interest and you want to seal the deal by sticking your tongue down her throat do so. (but mystery is correct when he states it's best to first kiss her gently to get some arousal from her part.)

As for myself I am more of a reserved person so when I meet strangers I'll greet them with a handshake, that goes for both males and females. However when a stranger pecks me I give a peck back of course. But I know southern people tend to peck and give a hug.

Just do whatever is comfortable and culturally acceptable. No need to get too lost in the details.