I spent the day gaming this girl who lives about 40mins away from me. I tend to go to that location quite a lot. We really hit it off and she really likes me. We ended on a kiss close, only reason it wasn't a f close was because we didn't really have a place to do it . We've been in pretty much constant contact ever since.

I will end up meeting her again. How do i make her ok with the fact that it will be a non-monogamous relationship?

I won't lie to her and go around with other girls behind her back. It may seem pathetic but I want to play this game without compromising my morals.

Be honest and upfront about your intentions BEFORE you sleep with this girl, and make sure she knows the relationship will never be more than what it is right now.

Your boy,
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I don't know anything about polyamory, it's never been something I've done. The reason I'm posting is that you just met a girl, and are already talking about what sort of relationship you can have with her. That point about "making her okay with it" got my attention. If you don't want to be monogamous, then don't be in a relationship. It'd be much easier to be FWB, and you can find out if that's possible by just talking to her about sex, how fun it is to be single, etc.

And keep gaming other girls. Don't focus on her so much you end up with nothing.

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If this fails ama kill you just kidding
Thanks for the advice man

What's the difference between polyamory and being single whilst being involved with more than one girl? I was just talking about the fact that I'd be seeing other girls at the same time.
Btw what does FWB mean?

FWB = friends with benefits... I call them "Ben's"

I have been living this lifestyle for a year now. And I've got a good amount of experience with it. On thing I'll tell you less is more. Don't write rules to break... be somewhat distant and maintain a "busy" life. I also tell stories about my other Ben's...

"Oh the other day I was with my friend Lauren, you would believe what happen... blah blah blah."

That way they understand I'm around other girls a lot. And if they push the subject I just explain...

"After my divorce, I think I need to take some time away from relationships right now. I'm busy focusing on my businesses, and I'm just not ready to be with someone again".

I have learned that being forward and saying "Hey I like you but I still want to fuck other girls" is not the way to go. Just be casual with her and do your thing. Don't lie, but don't instill false hope.

Legit question.

Polyamory is actually being in a relationship with more than one person, simultaneously. And I don't mean you have a girlfriend on one side of town adn one on the other, playing a double life. I mean like 3+ people are all aware of what's going on, and are basically in a relationsihp with eachother.

An open relationship is where you're dating someone but you don't consider sexual activity cheating. It depends on the individuals involved, but an example would be that you date a girl, you both are fine wtih the other having one night stands, so long as there is no emotional significance.

Friends with benefits is a nonexclusive relationship. You aren't dating, you are just friends who engage in sexual activity with eachother for physical pleasure.

Fuck buddies, and maybe I'm straying a bit with this one, are people who may not hang out with eachother much, if at all, and just use eachother for sexual activity.

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