Hey team, this is my first post on the site so forgive me if this isn't in the right spot, i hope it still gets attention. And hopefully someone will direct me where to better post questions.

So I've been gaming this girl (HB7) for about two weeks. Everything was moving a long smoothly we'd been on two dates and kissed closed both times. Things continue normally until the third date rolled around. Had a dinner planned but she blew me off last second, I said that was fine and kept my cool then froze her out.

Two days later I figured I would Re-initiate, texted her saying "I'm gonna have to sell your sweater on ebay, it looks nice i bet it will fetch a good dolla! "

She immediatly responded saying "Haha don't you dare I love that sweater!" then she proceeded to go on a tangent saying "I'm very busy with school right now and I don't really want to start anything right now blah..blah...blah i'm sorry for blowing you off on thursday." I told it was fine and that it was probably best she didn't come cause we ended up getting drunk with the cooks of the restaurant.

Text convo goes on lots of winkies/smilies/ and these fucking things ":p"
then she reminds me we were supposed to hangout that night! (had totally forgotten)
I figured strike while the iron is hot maybe the freeze-out worked well.
We hungout, went swimming with like 3 other people so there was zero one-on-one time but lots of subtle kino.
Since then haven't hung out again, been about a week, and she seems much less responsive, normally she would text me a lot. Maybe even some over texting on my part.

She then sends me a text yesterday saying " You know we arent dating right? :S not in a mean way but people are getting annoyingly nosy."
My response " Are you ashamed of me? in truth I don't even think we are seeing each other anymore I'm really busy with work."
This lead to a discussion about where we live and a bunch of blah blah blah. She seemed fairly reactive to this tho, we talked about how dramatic people can be and lots of people are stuck in highschool mode. (She is 18 about to graduate, I am 19.) She is a party girl aswell. Then our texts proceded as normal she just seems less responsive again.

Sorry for the long post didnt want to leave out any details.


So any advice? Did I blow myself out? I think I may just freeze her out and let her come around once school is over. She still hasn't gotten her sweater back either, HA!
Or i was thinking about just confronting her. Saying "So where do we stand now? I'm sick of games."
Please criticize and scrutinize my scenario, it will help me learn faster. Thanks guys!

DO NOT do that! That level of honesty shows a lot of desperation and wayy too much interest in her. Especially after what she said about you guys not being in a relationship, you've always gotta leave her wondering if you've got some other girls interested in you.
The worst thing you can do right now is try to act like her boyfriend or act like you REALLY want her, as she's already made it clear that she's not ready to date you yet.

Don't go for a complete freeze out, just don't overdo the texting on your part. Leave it a while before you text back, that'll give her time to think about you during the texts, wondering why you're not texting back etc.

Suggest that you guys "hang out" - don't call it a date. THAT'S when you can game her easily. Go bowling or something where you can tease her, escalate kino etc.
Start off with maybe making up your own 'special' handshake or something that'll make it seem normal for you guys to be touching. Don't touch for too long. After a short while of kino, roll off and game her vocally.
You don't ever want her to be the one who stops the touching because she feels uncomfortable.

You seem like a good guy tbh, maybe just TOO nice so she might start to take advantage, especially being a party girl. Just look out for that, but good luck!

i agree deff do not ask her where you stand it makes you look needy nd i havent met a girl yet that wants a needy guy, when you text her do answer right away? you shouldnt if she takes 5 minutes to respond you take 10 if she takes 15 you take 20 makes it seem like you have other things to do then to tex her and in away its like a punishment for her taking so long. think about it like this if your dog shits on the floor are u going to give it a cookie? no your gunna stick his nose in it kick him in the ass and put it out side for awile. same goes for girls. wen they take time to respond dont reward her by responding instantly.

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dont chase, replace

I once heard sage advice
"Do not ask a girl a question, unless you already know the answer" (I forget who said it)
So first, do you know the answer? If not then obviously don't ask it

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To game at your best you have to be willing to do your worst.

Game other girls, that way you won't be needy. In all reality, there's no such thing as gaming a girl for two weeks. If you haven't gotten anywhere by then, you probably won't get any more than what you already have.

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These hos ain't loyal