So I have been working on this one girl who is really shy. I have her friends on my side trying to influence her into dating me, not that I really need other to speak on my behalf but this girl seems game proof. Let me just give you a little bit of a back ground. I have known her as a friend of a friend for a few years but we never really talked. She is a 22 yr old virgin and has never had a Bf, also she is very quite and selective when she speaks. It is this quality and the fact that she is absolutely gorgeous that made me realize that this is not just another target, but a game changer. I am currently hooking up with an 8 but she is starting to want more then NSA, while I am smitten by this shy girl, who when I do finally figure out I plan on leaving the game for. To prevent myself from going into a obnoxiously long rant let me just get to the point. How can I improve my chances of dating this shy girl?
What I know about her:
1. Comes from a big family, and the oldest of 4 other sisters.
2. Is very cautious about what she says and who she speaks too.
3. Never had a BF or sex.
4.Is graduating with a degree in Child hood education but does not want to work with young kids.
5.Stoner chick. Loves Pink Floyd, the Beatles, and such
6.Tells her friends that she wants to "get to know me" but she turned me down for two different dates/events.

I look forward to hearing your advice but I just want to point out that this is not my first rodeo, so I am looking for outside the box thinking lol.

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Well.. she's a stoner. Best conversations I ever had was while high.

We blaze together pretty frequently.

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#1 - she is not a virgin - unless she told you she believed in some higher belief and is committed to it with a fucking promise ring

#2 She is a stoner so I don't seriously understand where her prim and proper etiquette of selectivity is being put into question when it comes to her conversation. One would think someone more selective with their time and words would be brushing up on their education than actually getting high. In either case, it sounds like you are over-exaggerating her qualities.

#3. If you still don't believe she is NOT a virgin, I feel sorry for you.

#4. If you disagree with #1, #2, and #3, it is quite obvious why your #6 is valid.

#5. To already want to quit the game for her based on these small facts is ridiculous AFC Behavior.

#6. Explain more about this '8' girl with NSA....

I know she is a virgin.

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If you don't like something change it... And never regret anything because at one point in your life it was exactly what you wanted.

Also I can assure you I am no afc mate. I have been in the game for years and have even brought up some locals. The point is I actually like this girl because in my experience her personality and intellect are hard to find. That being said I do not want to game her to hook up I am trying to establish an honest connection and a real relationship.

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Captain,

How do you know she is not a virgin. Although it seems unlikely that an attractive 22 year old is a virgin, it is not impossible. You are giving advice based on the assumption that she is lying. How could you possibly know this.

She does not have to be religious or something to be a virgin. Not all virgins want to stay virgins until they are married. Maybe she has had uncomfortable encounters when she was younger, or even possibly molested. This could cause a young women to be uneasy around sexuality.

Also, what the hell do you know about stoner girls. What point are you even trying to make regarding your second point. That all stoner girls are sluts, or that she must be an idiot. You're saying that Guns2010 is exaggerating her intelligence and drive, simply because she gets high.

Also try not to use double negatives when you post. It is confusing.



Guns2010, you seem to feel this girl is special. It is likely they have a lot in common. However I will offer you this advice guns. Don't quit gaming because of her. You can still hook up with HB8 and this girl. Also, as a stoner myself, I tend to attach high value to girls who blaze too. Very few girls smoke weed. Guys who blaze, tend to spend a lot of time "chilling" with their buddies.

Recently I met a girl who blazes (not just gets high once in a while), and I felt like I had met my soulmate. She was easy going, and just liked to hang out. It seems perfect, but that's what you have your boys for. Don't get to attached to a girl just because she seems totally compatible with you.