Hello,

I'm pretty new to this community, so I'm not sure if I write in the right section but then....it's called general section for a reason...

I would need some of your opinions and advices about my classmate I wanna get. Here's the story:

So, one day I saw this pretty girl at the university where I study so I talked to her and we had some fun and we went out together. Nothing big, we were just walking around and talking about stuff...at this point I didn't know anything about the game and I can see that I screwed up that day a lot. She did most of the talking and I was mostly asking only direct questions instead of making statements etc. But it seemed like she enjoyed my company and we kept talking to each other. It turned out that she's my classmate so there plenty of opportunities for us to talk.

Then, one day she asked if I don't wanna go for a coffee, so ofc I did go with her and again we had a good time. At the end I leaned towards her and tried to kiss her, not french but kiss, but instead she just turned her had and I ended up giving her a little kiss on the cheek. Overall we were together out 3x. The last time we went for a beer (her suggestion) and as usual it was nice talking to her. At the end we hugged and followed again with a kiss on the cheek. I still didn't know anything about the game so I didn't do any kino escalation.

After I was introduced to the Game, a book written by Neil Strauss. I started to think about this and I actually managed to kino escalate. We are comfortable touching each other etc. Also, I think there is some tension between us, but I'm not completely sure; however, every time I try something I've read about on this forum or saw in a video about puck up, it has excellent results.

But here's the deal. She has plenty of male friends and one of those friends is coming over to her house for three days. They are texting to each other a lot during the day, but she's overall very friendly person so I don't know whether I should understand that a sign that she's interested in him or not.

That guy is coming to her house for this weekend, and she asked me if I don't wanna go have beer with them because she really enjoyed the last time. Now, I'm not sure if I'm going (or already am) in the friend zone, but I really wanna get her and more importantly I don't wanna lose her to that other guy.

Therefore, I'm asking you for your opinions and advices. What should I do to attract her more than the other guy? Or in the worst case, what should I do to win her over? Any tips or form of advice would be appreciated...Thanks in advance.

P.S.

Sorry for any mistakes in my writing. I'm not from an english speaking country.


Kaldo