I met this hb8 at a party on Friday night, She's a 20 yo and i'm 30, She was with 3 friends(2 of them were married). I opened the set, spoke with all 4 of them for a while then directed my attention to my target. I got her to walk with me to the otherside of the club where it was less noisy. We chatted for about 10 mins and she suggested that we exchange numbers. Right through the conversation with her we kept this energetic eye contact. She was even leaning in towards me so I knew she was interested. We hugged playfully a few times but no kissing was involved............Now heres the problem: The next afternoon I sent her a text and she responded saying "please send me a picture so that I can show it to my roommate". I sent her a picture of myself and she did the same. So we texted back and forth all day. I asked when would be a good time to give her a call and she responded by saying "Oh i'm really not a big fan of speaking on the phone". We texted for the rest of the day. The next day we texted some more and I playfully suggested that I call her so that we could speak because my fingers hurt from texting(she thought that was cute and funny). Anyways she gave me the same response that she don't like speaking on the phone. I'm at the point where i'm not really getting through to her the way I want to because I cannot speak to her to really kick some game. Is she acting like this because she is young? or is she just trying to blow me off?(shut me down)...I feel like I've hit a sticking point and cant't move forward....HELP!!!!

Long phone conversations are for people who don't have anything better to do. Instead of trying to run game over the phone, why not make plans and continue to woo her in person, where you can surely charm more efficiently by making use of nonverbal cues that make up 90% of communication?

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Ok. We had made plans to meet up on sunday(2days after we first met) but she gave some lame ass excuse about not feeling well. Its Tuesday now and I haven't texted her since sunday night. Just to paint a better picture for u...I've been with over 200 women, so i'm by no means inexperienced. I just want a solid plan of action to get in this chicks head and eventually into her bed and fuck her like shes never been fucked before...Just because I feel like shes trying to play me. Revenge is the sweetest thing next to getting pussy...I want to fuck her and have her wrapped around my little finger. A true player never ever wants to feel like he's being played and i'm no exception to those rules.

Some people just don't like the phone. I really hate phone calls, just can't deal with them.

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Dude screw the phone. Do not try it again with this girl. She will get annoyed. This isn't a sticking point, it's just this girl. Keep texting her and make plans to meet her. You ideally should've left it after the first time she said no phone.

Just meet her up and talk, escalate...voila. Good luck.

Their are people like me who is not really fun of speaking, like me I prefer to text it rather than call.. it's tiring to speak of useless matters. and ggggg text is fun.

You're not running game like this....at all.

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I think you are desperately needy here. Revenge is the sweetest thing? Sorry to say it..but this whole paragraph wreaks bro. Maybe this is the good reason she's been blowing you off. No offense but remember why we're doing this "To leave the girl in a better place than you found her"

Not to sound like the Green Goblin...

The new generation of people coming up just don't talk on the phone anymore, its kind of old school. I'm more into phone conversations myself and whenever I come across a girl that would rather text than have a phone conversation, I just next them and move on to a girl that will. Its just my standard.

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Let it be. Me and a girl broke up over this whole issue before. I wanted to call and she wanted to text.

One day, after us discussing the issue, he texted me something and I responded, "I'll call you when I leave the gym". She said "ok".

So, I call her on my way home and boom. No answer. She texts back 5 minutes later with "What's up?"

I wait 5 minutes. Call again. No answer.

20 minutes later she texts me, "can't talk just text" (Which I didn't believe)

The next day, she texts me, "Goodmorning"

Hour later I call her. No answer.

That nice she texts me telling me to come over. Ignore the text and call her. And again she doesn't answer.

We to this day haven't had a conversation and I didn't see her again til randomly at a party 3 months later where we laughed about how stupid it was and then fucked. Were cool now, don't really know why we both got so stubborn but it's a fun story looking back at it. Kinda makes me miss her diminutive ass.


But, point is, if I could go back and do it again I wouldn't have even brought it up. Some people are just more comfortable texting than phoning. It's annoying when it's important but it's really a non issue and what I did an my ex did was childish.

Or girls who textwhore while you're out with them. I simply pull my car over to the side of the road (preferably a desolate highway at night), lean over, open the door, and help them out using my foot up their ass.

I'm on the same ship as you there.