Hey guys i have a problem... I have been "talking" to this girl for a year on and off, if you added up the time we have been talking it would really only be about 3 months. when we first started talking i wasnt running game simply because i didnt know how. then i got books on pick up body launage and other stuff. ive been running game on her for a little more than a month but much of which was only via text message because she wont hang out or come to the parties i throw. its not because my game sucks its because she is hung up on her ex bf. i cage fight and her ex is one of the guy i regularly used to use as a sparring partner. they broke up last year and me and nat started talking but i soon moved on to bigger and better thing because it seemed like it wasnt going anywhere. then they ended up getting back togather. i saw her about three months ago and found out they broke up again so i invited her to one of the parties i was throwing, she said she would come but never did. she texted me saying she was depressed because of the break up. heres the problem, he was her first fuck so she feels she needs him. she texts me all the time. but i cant get her to come out she just stays home her reasoning most of the time for not comming out is "i live to deep". some times we talk on the fone and she will make plans to go to the movies or go do something but when the day comes she has some sort of excuse. now were suposta go to the city this weekend any tips

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dont chase, replace

You have to get her chasing you, because you're obviously chasing her. When you do that it makes you less attractive, and she feels she can hang out with you whenever she wants so she wont care about canceling. I'd try not texting her for 2 weeks then call her. Dont answer her texts or calls for 2 weeks. Call her up and see if she'll do something. That's your best bet. Don't see a movie though. You gotta escalate quick with this girl and create a bond when you get her out. Do something where you can seal the deal.

And then there's the obvious advice, you're too hung up on this girl, best thing you can do to get her is to go pick up other chicks.

should i see if she falls thru this sunday and if she does then freeze her out or should i jus start today ?

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Hate to say this man, but you've got one-itis for sure. The best way to get her chasing you is to move one and date other women. Practice your game with them, and when she sees you having a good time and not being her backup guy then she may start showing more interest. And hey, if she doesn't, your game will be top notch and you'll basically be over her.

lol deff dont have one itis i hooked up with three girls this weekend. jus trying to figure out how to hook up with this one shes like a 9.5 im used to 8s

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anymore advice ?

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dont chase, replace