Every now and then I flick through singles ads and the like, often with a wry smile, occasionally with a little peak of interest... well this one peaked my interest:

"[Name] very attractive attached female, own transport and willing to travel, seeking similar natured male for extra circular[sic] activities."

Never having even replied to a dating ad before I am not sure what to make of this ad. If it is taken at face value, I am 'similar natured' (i.e. attached) and seriously thinking about straying for the first time.

What are thoughts on dating ads generally?

What are thoughts on this ad specifically? To me a few details are lacking (age and shape / size are reassuring things to know).

I might reply. I might not. But I am going to have me a little think about it first and some extra input may help.

She will get a million replies from guys so my only advice is to make sure you stand out. You know your redeeming qualities better than us.

Well, gave the voicebox a call and bonus was being able to listen to her message recorded in her voice. Instant turn-off!

how do you known it's not a trap?