Hello there, I am a new member, but have looked at this website for many months off and on. Well lets get started.
I played junior hockey this past season while still being in high school, I found a girl I was interested in for most of the school year but the problem was... she had a boyfriend.
So over the course of the year I talked to her a few times nothing to serious, and another kid off of my hockey team was in a few classes with her. She would always tell him that I am super cute and stuff like that. So know this brings me to almost the end of the season. There is about a month left, she breaks up with her boyfriend who was a crazy guy to say the least! Pinned her down to a bed because he was so messed up in his mind that know girl should have that down to them when they break up. They were in a distance relationship most of the time.
So she breaks up with her boyfriend the in the next couple of days there was a party that a bunch of us hockey guys went to, she was there and we were with each other the whole night having a great time! So we go to another house after this party and begin to make out (my first time ever LOL) so that is great. The day after this party she has to work and stuff so I go visit her @ work and we are doing great. We hook up some more times with a great bond between each other, start falling for each other etc.
So we hang out every day for the next 3 or so weeks and just love every time we have together. We stay up late and help each other with homework and stuff like that etc. So my hockey team didn't make playoffs and I had to leave about a month into this great bond between me and this girl. So the day I leave to go back home to graduate in my hometown (2.5 hours away) I ask her what happens now?
So we begin to date, put it onto facebook and all that stuff and I would visit her as much as I could. It worked out to seeing each other like every other weekend from friday to sunday. We then had spring break like a month later and hung out for like a week straight. I went and visited her in her town and she came up to mine for a couple days as well. So I am thinking this are going great.
Her friend tell me all the time you better not be lieing about this stuff because she really loves you a lot. She hasn't ever had a guy like this before and all this stuff.
So lets cut to the chase. A weekend ago I visit her and give her some early bday presents (her bday was this wkend) I couldn't go because of some hockey related tryouts. We didn't hit it off as well as we normally do this weekend, just both of us under some stress, but still a really fun weekend nonetheless. We are over at her friend's place and they start talking about post secondary stuff, they are telling there plans, then I start telling them that I can get a scholarship into the US across the continent. She seems heartbroken at this. Then the day after I get home, I get a text from her saying she needs a break and stuff like that. So me never being in a relationship facebook one of her friends to see if she is alright. I don't say anything disrespectful or anything.
I go no contact with her, although I did msg her friend, so the next day she texts me saying I miss you already. So I text her back I missed you so much today etc. She also asked would I be talking to other girls and stuff like that? I said "no, not yet" then she spazzed and said I knew you would do that.
Then she finds out I talked to her friend, she got mad at that etc. So we are still not talking all that much. I try calling her, I called her like 5 or 6 times in a row with no pickup (DUMB MISTAKE I KNOW) and then she gets pissed at this.
So a few days later she breaks up with me over text. I try and get a hold of her, I phone her like 5 times in a row like 3 various times (EXTREMELY DUMB MISTAKE I KNOW) but so she says yeah stop effing calling me and stuff like that. So i tell her I love her and she starts giving me some hearts back in text msgs.
I really love her and want to know if I stand a chacne with her again?
The last thing she texted was "I am done for now, I dont want a relationship right now (feeling stressed from it), I will always be yours (heart) maybe in the future."
So I have gone no contact, is it ever to late to start no contact and she will miss me like crazy?
I love her
CHAT