Ok guys so short version of the story is, 4 months ago I kiss closed this girl which was an exchange student, but she was going back home on that same day.
She has been contacting me over facebook from time to time, saying that she always laughs with my messages, she misses me and will try to come here to do her internship, and it would be great to spend time with me, bla bla bla...
Well last message she sent me was like 1month and a half ago, I never replied cause I was offline during that time busy with real life issues.
In the meanwhile alot of other girls have been posting stuff on my wall, so I guess she felt jealous and lonely... So last week she changed her relationship status from single to in a relationship, I know from close friends that its a fake. I do want to reply to her, because she is coming back in july to do her internship here, and well It would be nice to go all the way, she's hot... plus she might be ltr material. But this fake relationship kinda made things weird, cause If I reply she might think I'm doing it because of the relationship status crap...

Not quite sure how to dodge this bullet, cause If I ignore her, well she might lose interest.

Simple broskee....

If you only used that noggin of yours for one second do this:

Change YOUR relationship status from Single to In A Relationship

Duh! Although...I think even if your 'close friends' are right..what evidence do they have she hasn't slept with anyone else during this time etc?

Lol....sounds like a bullet to the head

I don't really care if she has been sleeping around, I know I have , we arent in a ltr yet. And yes my friends are 100% right.
My relationship status is hidden from everyone, and I'm not changing it cause of some girl. It would be great since she's coming here, to keep her buying temp high, but not quite sure how to do that after that stunt of hers.

To be honest, sounds like her interest went right through the window anyways. If your friends are 100% right (are you telling me you have someone monitoring her ---bit creepy but w/e?) then you can go for it.

But realistically, she could just resent you by now or backwards rationalize it into thinking you just weren't into her. When she does this and if you said anything directly when she comes back, she could just assume you're not her type altogether.

In the words of Mystery : fake it till' you make it.

I dont have anyone stalking her, we have a lot of friends in common, I introduced her to a lot of people while she was here, which made me top of the social circle in her eyes. One of them is a great friend of mine, which casually mentioned in a conversation with me about how she was joking around on facebook faking a relationship.

Ignore the fact her status is in a relationship. It's facebook, who cares.

Well she's only coming here in like 2 months. So I'll just send her some cocky and funny message with plenty of push pull, and ignore the relationship status thing. If she replys and brings it up, I'll use false disqualifiers.

Do as you would when she would be single.

I sent her this message 2 days ago:

"I am very disappointed with you... so last message you were saying how amazing and unexpected I am... how could you forget about the how humble I am part? Unforgivable :p

It's also very easy to be funny, all it takes is a girl with a fun personality like yourself on the other side. Or did you just said that to try to get into my pants? Oh you dirty girl...

I didnt had the time to plan my trip to Poland yet, last weeks have been insane, need also to discuss the details with (common friend) first. Are you staying in Poland during the entire Summer?

Kisses,"

I had planned to go to her country to visit not only her but also other friends, but I know she's coming to my country during the Summer.
Still no response, but she has done this waiting game before. The ball is in her court, so I'm pretty sure I wont do anything else for this one, untill she tells me something. But my finger is almost on the NEXT button.

Ok guys we got some new developments, a day or two after I sent her that message, she turned her relationship status hidden. So I went to see Real Madrid x Bayern Munich semi final, I put the visit thing on my facebook, and a spaniard hot chick who has a huge crush on me commented it, she saw it and yesterday she sent me this message:

"my dear friend!! im so sorry that i wasnt available for long time,but right now i can also say that i've got a little bit free time,coz today i passed my last exam!!!! finally!! hehe im so happy !!! last few days were exhousted and i used computer just for learning(yeah it's possible,really!!!;D) and what's about you and madrid?? anyway im fine, i had free weekend-first one after i started working and i can say that it was partying animals-even in another town:P by the way i told you you're amazing,but you havent replied for long time so i thought that you dont wanna!! hehehehe im staying in poland till about middle of july coz then im going to portugal to povoa de varzim for doing internship as erasmus!!! amazing;P kisses!!"

after she realised I only went there to watch the game she sent me this one:
"sorry i dont know why i asked bout madrid;p i think so many things today that i've done and my brain hasnt worked properly;d"


So whats up with the "my dear friend" part? Time to tell her I already have enough friends?