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My friend who doesn't have a knowledge of the game but still gets decent girlfriends (maybe because of his good looks) said that I'm too confronting, particularly in my body language. He could be right, but I disagree with him. Anyway, he said to look more relaxed. I understand that it's good advice. I'm never tense of nervous though. However, his validity was lowered a bit because he was telling me not to get over confident, because then I would come across as cocky. We know that confidence and cocky/funny are attractive. He also denigrated the opinion opener, saying it puts them on the spot. He said to make my approach really basic, like, "Hi, I'm Trent." That opener seems too basic, too boring, too AFC.
You've already had advice from a guy who actually knows you, has seen you in action, AND "gets decent girlfriends" (and it's unlikely it's JUST because of his good looks). Yeah, he could be wrong about certain things, but he's already in a better position to advise you than anyone on the internet.