Hello guys,
I've been a long term advocate of pick up every since I was 16-17. I am now 20, turning 21.
Being naturally shy had led to situations where I would become desperate to look how to pick up girls and had led me to pick up websites. I had a terrible childhood. An abusive father. High exceptions from my mother which led to beatings and very unreasonable comparisons. No friends I could truly depend on after being betrayed horribly after when I got ostracized and bashed for reasons that are completely unfair. The only thing going at that time was that I had made it into the top universities in my local area and I was able to escape the troubles from high school and family.
I may be biased but nevertheless, my life has been a very hard one.
I became awe-inspired especially reading how you could remember a routine and apply in real life situations. It was like if I could take up a strategy for a video game and apply it consistently until I could get it right. That was my mentality... until I tried to.
But all of the times I used it, the girls would always end up thinking I was weird or fucked up. I did not realised this. Instead I blamed myself instead of the technique. I keep on wondering and keep on being unhappy with myself. And when it did "work", it was merely because the girl thought I was her type, not because some bullshit opener routine had lead to this and that. Social interactions were never meant to be this complicated at all!!!!!!! This was going on for years until I finished my exams for university near when I turned 20 years old.
My awakening began when I came across a website of PUAhate.com where it revealed all the bullshit marketing strategies that these marketing assholes seek to exploit the more socially reluctant male. It had awoken by seeing how "David Deangelo" ends up one of the most ugliest women I have seen (and I had scored better even with my fucked up mentality due to pickup), the failures of many posters trying to apply pick up to their lives and most importantly, revealing the absolute sham that the pick up industry is all about.
When I understand why everything was not working for me with girls, I instead pursued to be myself. I chose to compliment girls that I like instead of "negging them". I chose to ask out girls that I'm interested and fairly make it obvious that I am INTERESTED. I chose not to follow a retarded "Maniac High" routine by pickupguide.com anymore and tell myself that girls are not as complicated as they are meant to be. I chose to be confident and believe in myself. In my own intuition. In my own beliefs. I chose not believe in such bullshit anymore.
I MADE THE CHOICE TO TAKE BACK MY LIFE!
And I've never been so happy in my life... ever. Girls have been giving more much attention and my confidence with them has never been higher in my life.
I have much more respect from my peers for actually working hard for my degree and my career.
I aim to become one of the most powerful and successful men in the world, rather than chasing "HBs" which all in all, can be gotten by really:
1. Having good looks to be in their league
2. Being rich enough
3. Having an really really good personality (even though looks and money and still much more important in most situations)
And even if you can't get HBs, who really gives a shit? WHO CARES? A saying by my friend - "every girl is the same when you turn off the light"
There's no fucking bullshit routines to follow, or Day 1, Day 2 or fucking negging them or doing anti social shit like wearing stupid ass clothes like that retard Mystery.
I'm not saying not EVERYTHING works under pick up but... most of it is bullshit. You can only really know by believing in your intuition (assuming that you're not fucked up in other ways like having some sort of mental disease that should be addressed by a psychologist) and working with what works with girls. Understanding what kind of girls YOU want and the girls that are your type. Once you figure that out, don't always discriminate based on looks.
What I've also learned that personality is definitely important but it's not to say that having a hot GF/fuck buddy is necessarily not a bad thing. ^_^
Better to get what you can get rather than get nothing right?
And if you really want those HBs and you're not lucky enough to be good looking, I suggest you better save up getting that plastic surgery or start working your ass so you become rich and powerful.
These is my "pick up" theories but really, they are just simply common sense and the rules that are set by the human race.
Thank you for reading and I hope you escape from this mental masturbation.
For more information, please check out
http://puahate.com/
and good luck men. For happiness.