Hello guys,

heres my story in short. Five months ago I came out of a 7 year relationship. I started enjoying the single life and following the PUA forum, enjoying every bit but with alla honesty I am not that of a player yet. However I managed to pull a 30 year old woman who has just split up with her husbant for a year now and has a kid. We had fun for two months, amazing in bed and really good looking. For 6 days she has been avoiding me and last night she told me she fell in love with me and didn't know what to do and would decide tomorrow.

Since a kind of feel the same for her and I don't think this would lead as anywhere, I sent her a message explaining that what we had was nice but its now over since she doesn't know what she wants and I am doing her a favour by leaving.

I think it was a good choice to leave but non the less I feel like shit because I was having loads of fun with her, fun that I never had before in my entire life.

Probably there is another girl waiting for me out there though right?

Cheers

Personally, I think being a player sucks, and the pick up community hypes up way too much crap on sleeping with tons of women.

But again, is up to you to decide what you want to do.

I have 2 friends with benefits. This alone is way too much for me to handle time wise. I still go out and sarge, but numbers, I rarely follow up. I just go for pulls. If one of my FWB wants to be my girlfriend, I would. I like them up.

If a girl wants to be official with you, and you really like her, do it. Don't get too caught up with being a player. Again, is up to you.