Hey guys. So this girl and I have been hooking up for about a week now, and today she came over to my place. We did some fun silly stuff, bake pancakes, watch The Walking Dead. We ended up making out quite a bit, but it went no further.

We spent around 4.30 hours together, and talked a lot, listened to music, made out obviously, watched stuff.

But is this a bad sign? It seemed like she didn't want to go any further. I took her out to a playground afterward near my place for a while, and then took her back to the train.

Any help is greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Seemed? Did you try to escalate at all during the makeout?

OK, I should rephrase this after second thought. I was too much of a pussy to escalate. I see what I did wrong now.

Is there any way to save this?

Yea..invite her to do the same thing wink wink as last time, this time lay her down and rip her pants off.

Here is a question:
Did you enjoy?
Did she enjoy?

That's all that matters. Who cares if you slept with her? Free your mind from this community bullshit "I should escalate", "I fucked up" blabla. Be in that moment with her, and escalate not because you think you should but because both of you want it so bad.

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I have to return some videotapes...

Defy's got it. It seems like you had an awesome time (especially since you watched the best show in the world), so who cares if you didn't have sex? Every meathead on here will say if you don't fuck after X number of dates, you're in trouble. They're wrong.

Could have always been that time of the month... Don't sweat it.

Defy has the secret.

Goals are what YOU set, and frankly, they don't mean shit if you're having fun.

I've stopped running game MANY times just because I was having a ball. There didn't seem to be a point in escelating.

I closed a date tonight with a lady I cold-approached Wednesday. When we discussed what to do - she offered a home-cooked meal and a movie... Well, I cook my ass off, but I don't give a fuck - that gets me to her couch.

Now, it's up to me to determine the evening's success.

I'm going to fuck her if she so much as twitches the wrong way LOL... I know me. But dude, there's nobody standing over you with a gun demanding you F-close.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

tell her u hurt your neck at gym see if she offers a massage

after return the favor "k your turn"

super easy to kino this way and escalate sexually

i've used this approach many times and its never ever failed