So I met a girl about 3 weeks ago, and we had been sitting next to each other in lecture halls. After the semester is over I will probably never see her again, but I would like to maintain our interaction in the future. How do I get her number without making it sound like asking her out? We are just friends so far. I don't want to give her the wrong impression.

talk to her and ask for the number,

the more she enjoys this talk, the better it will go for you, follow up on the number, get used to the idea of flakes before you tighten your shit up, they happen

chances are you will get the phone number easy, the hard part will be getting her to meetup with you after you get the number, or having her interested in texting with you

these two things are dependent on how attractive she finds you and how much the benefits for her outweigh to risks of seeing you again

in other words, make yourself appealing to her, offer her an appealing offer to go do something some time, or keep in touch, and just ask for her number, if you have a decently long conversation and she feels like you are not crazy or weird as shit, chances are you will get the number easy as pie

I like to invite her to something low-pressure and non-specific. Say "I might be going to the beach next weekend with some friends, you should join us!", and then ask for her number so you can give her the details. Or tell her you're going to happy hour or something like that. Like another poster said, getting the number is the easy part, it's trying to get her to meet you afterward that's hard.

"Hey you know what I really like talking to you, and seeing as though I've gotten to know you a bit and I am not getting any stalker vibes from you give me your number and we'll hang out some time"

Two days ago, I told her that we should catch up and she replied that yah, we should study together. Then she asked me for my number, which was a little awkard. So I gave my number. She told me that she will text me. But I don't use text and so I don't have text on my phone. I told her that, I don't have text so she wiill have to call me. She said ok. I said, I work until 5, and so call me after that. She said, ok, she will probably be in the library. Its three days, and she still did not call me. Given that we are just classmates, and I was trying to get to know her better and do things together, what went wrong here?

nothing went wrong, pretty normal actually, see wasn't as bad as you thought, if you had texting she probably would have been texting with you, and if you have her number, take the initiative to invite her out, specifically, on a specific day

this is how it works, you talk to her, arrange a meetup, get her number, if she flakes over and over, then just take that hint as she is not interested or is seeing other guys, don't completely cut her out of your life, but definitely re prioritize her, and pursue other girls

You need tatcis and a bit of guts.

1. Talk to her if you didnt.
2. Read her IOI if there is IOI ask her out.

Since you are in same class there is no problem with talking, you have a lot of subjects.

I would try something like this

You:"so, can you help me with that?"
Her:"Sure with what"
You blabla
she bla bla
you: Wow you are so smart... who would think so :p ( one neg)

And keep going, with teasing in comunication..
in apropriate moment, so you sound a bit interesting, wanna grab a dring ( coffie) sometime?

That is how i would do...
You went wrong, she saw trought your bullshit "lets stuydy together"
It was so expected.

you didnt, show her your social value from begining, and second you ware so avrage with everything and third she was reading you like a book.

Go in the libary and find her. Sit next yo her, and talk but not like some puppy who needs her, act like she needs you, and demostrate that.

Now you have to show her that you know stuff better then her, stuff you bouth need to study, to value you more.

Im at university too, my mate who is proper studend gets more chiks then me from university imm better looking and more PUA then him trust me only thing that getting him chiks is his succes. He is not straight A but gets the shit done on time.

dude are you serious? i haven't mentioned it before, she is my classmate, i only know her for three weeks. Can someone give me a valid reply, or if this thing works, then i don't know how she will take it if i ask her for a drink sometime. thats like asking her out. someone tell me something, i feel like i am stuck here.

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So, that girl my classmate, called me yesterday at night, and asked me to study together. I went to the library and we were studying for a long time about 4 - 5 hours. During this time, we were studying and both laughing, and having fun. She was laughing with me to what I was telling her. When I was concentrating on my OWN studies, she kept on asking me a bunch of questions all the time, one after another. Every time, our conversation, went to silence, and we were studying she kept on asking me questions about the exam we were having. Next, when I left, she asked me what room I was sitting at for the exam, and then she said, we should sit together.

Today, she called me again, and then asked me to study together. I went, and we were studying, with 2 other kids. We went to take the test together, and then left together after the exam was over. After the test, she was freaking out, and then asking me a whole bunch of questions that came up on the exam. Personally, after the exam, I don't care how I did, because there is no point of stressing on it. So, I tried to calm her down and told her, you need to relax, and then was listening to her, what she was telling me, and how she thought she fucked up the exam. She kept on telling me that she failed the exam and she was asking me all the details on how I did on the exam. I told her I did just fine, when in reality, I did poorly on the exam. So, after agreeing with her, and giving her a bunch of answers, I told her that we should chill, to which she said yah, lets get something to eat.

We grabbed food and then again, she kept on talking about the exam, and how horrible she did. I told her, you are just overreacting, and when the exam will be returned, you will see that you did well. But, no, she won't listen, she kept on talking about how horrible she did. So, I tried to divert to another topic like what she is doing tommorrow, and she said she is going to somewhere else, she doesn't know. Then again she kept on asking me details on every quesiton that came up on the exam. At this point, I gave up, and lost my interest, and avoided eye contact and was looking around. Then, I told her look at this point, there is no reason to worry about the exam. And, if you didnt do well, then it means you didn't practice well, or didnt understand questions well, or didnt't learn well. She said, I know that, and so are you saying, that I didn't study well? I said, no, I saw you studying late at night. you just dindn't have enough practice. After that, we both got up and we started to leave. She told me, that she will be in the library and she will call me to study.

Problems: I am not good with chemistry and she is doing well in class, but she doesnt know that, and she kept on asking me a bunch of qs all the time, and I don't know what to do.

Did I try to use logic instead of emotion, when I told her, that it doesnt matter now, since the exam is over, and stressing over it and freaking out won't help at all.

Next, was any of this a SHIT TEST?

Let me know, and tell me what I could've done differently. Because, I dont see the point of stressing on the exam tahts over, it won't help at all. I just couldn't make her realize that at all.

You're in great danger of being placed in the friend zone. Did you escalate your kino? Did you pepper the conversation with enough sexual innuendos?

Never assure girls, it kills the attraction and places you in the friend zone.

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Another big lesson learned. I don't care if I am messing up, because I am learning now. I will never ever reassure girls again in life. But, I didint know if I had to do kino, I had no idea about that. Plus I met her 3 weeks ago, I am not sure how she will take it, although I don't have any problem with touching her at all.

If I were to touch her, what would I have done like where would have touched her? And after touching her, what would I have told her? Plus, we were on campus, whre others were passing by, how would I have touched her? I had no idea what was going on, what I should have done. Please help me out everyone.

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However, we all have different comfort levels so you'll have to adjust the kino to your comfort level. I'm still learning the kino escalation ladder in public so technically we are both learning this as of the moment.

You're still lucky you've started young with scientific sarging. Many of us learned sarging the hard way through years of pain.

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Yah, but what could I've told her besides reassuring her that she will be fine and she will do well on her exam? That's all I could come up with. Any other ideas, when the girl wants to talk about the exam she just had and thinks she failed it?