I am actually posting this for a friend I'm helping. I've never had this problem because I don't use facebook for pua, so I couldn't answer his question. I find communicating through text to be a horrible way to try to build attraction and usually you end up sabotaging yourself anyway. I don't text if I can help it. I call a girl. I only ask for email as a ploy to get a number. Most of the time I don't need to ask for email. She'll want me to text her, but I just call her anyway.

Anyway I posted about him before. He's been my best friend since high school He's a former natural who lost his game in college. In high school he'd dated 30 girls and had sex with 5 of them. I had dated 2 with no sex. Now he gets no girls except for fake online scammers. It was bad. Anyway I went the opposite way of him.

In college I started having my success with women. I've been reading PUA stuff for 9 years. I just started really getting out in the field this year. Now he wants me to help him cuz I'm fucking all kinds of hot girls now including strippers (no $$$ paid and met in the club).

He's unique because he has bipolar disorder a slight learning disability. Somehow he got past this in high school. They weren't all fatties either. He's been with some hot girls. To prove this stuff works I've decided to take him from afc to pua and shut up the critics once and for all. If he had a natural in him before it's still there and just needs to be brought back to life. I think we're all this way in some ways.

If a bipolar mentally disabled guy can get hot girls to fuck him the debates over. Almost anyone can get girls with pua. I already know it works for me, so I just got to reproduce results.

Last week I took him out for his first field run. He did better than I did. Mostly because I was focusing on being a wing and helping him out, but also the fact that for some reason every fucking girl at the mall that night was under 18 except for the one he talked to first. Keep in mind I gave him a week of intensive training before we did this. He made me proud. I had to push him, but he just walked up to the first pretty girl he saw and opened and closed her like a boss! I was watching very close from a distance. I could tell he was working magic because she was dropping IOIs everywhere.

The problem came afterwards. He didn't realize he was supposed to ask for the number too when he asks for the email, but she offered him her facebook account. I took this as a success because she is younger and these kids live on facebook, so it's almost the same as having her cell to him. I told him to look for a number on her profile and to call her, because if she made that info available to him she wanted him to have it. Sure enough her cell# is on her profile. So now he's wondering if it is going to come across weird if he calls her when he didn't ask for a number.

I don't know. Like I said I avoid the text and facebook game like the plague. If that's all she gives me I usually just walk away because I feel like she wasn't truly interested. In his case I think it's a good thing because she offered it to him, her number wa on the profile, she's talking back to him on facebook, and she's been dropping IOIs constantly. And he never asked for the number, so he didn't actually get a rejection.

I think I'm over analyzing this, but I am teaching him, he's my first student, it's a huge experiment, and he's one of my oldest and best friends. I don't want to fuck this up. Any advice would be appreciated. I am probably going to tell him to call, but I'll wait for a reply here first.

Sorry I wrote a book. I'm a writer, so I tend to do that. Just wanted to make sure you all got the full context.

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A real man calls a woman if he forgets to ask her number/fb walls it. You know this or maybe you don't. But he needs to be alpha here.

He needs to simply be Cocky funny about it. Ring ring

Her: Hello

Him: hey its X you didnt give me your number what was it...

Her: Um..wait what lol..you're on the phone with me

Him: Oh .....I am? Sweet. At least we know I'm the smart one to get your number through your fb profile!

Her: haha or if she downplays it as weird (which it shouldnt be)

Him: Oh okay...fine ill just hang up then. We can go out on a date at your facebook wall. It's fine with me.

P.S. I fucking hate facebook.

I haven't read your post but to answer the question, no. It's creepy. Even though it is publicly available to use. If a girl did that to me I'd be weirded out.

Yeah, that's kind of what I was thinking as I was writing the post, but yeah... I just wanted some other opinions because facebook is a hotly debated thing around here. I'm 27. A 19 year old girl thinks really differently about it. My friend is 30 and almost technologically illiterate, so he has no idea what he's doing. I feel better about telling him that now though. Thanks.

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have you ever tried it? I post mine so people will call me. It would be a welcome thing to get a call from someone I haven't seen for 4 years since college or to get a call from some chick I met at a club who found me later.

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http://freepuavideolessons.blogspot.com/

The only people I do it with is my friends.

A friend of mine did it and apart from a completely weird conversation it did not get him anywhere.

That would be incredibly creepy. Most people don't even remember that their number is on Facebook, so it would be a complete shock if he called her. Additionally, if she wanted him to have her number already, she would have given it to him instead of just Facebook.

Creepy.

Until SHE gives you the number (it's a compliance issue as well), don't call - ever. Even if you have a 'decent' conversation - the odds are against you. You'll be stereotyped (potentially) as the stalker-type. You'll also be the AFC that all the other guys are that call her with NO invitation on her part.

Make her think a conversation with you is something to be desired.

YOU control it.


(I know you said it was for your friend.... what the fuck ever, the advice still holds true.)

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I gave him everybody's advice and let him chose. He chose to go ahead and call. It worked, but she flaked on the date. Later she LJBF him. He moved on to another chick... and since then another chick. At least he got over fear of rejection. He's just got to get his own computer and a cell phone. It seems like game is impossible these days without the proper technology.

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"What are you waiting for? You're faster than this. Don't think you are, know you are." -Morpheus, The Matrix

http://freepuavideolessons.blogspot.com/