using a push pull opener, what do you think of this?



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charleshogman
PostPosted: Tue Apr 17, 2012 8:15 pm 
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i was just thinking about this today. what if you used the usual "hey hows it going, i'm charles" "i'm (Girls name)". "oh its so great to meet you!...actually, its not really that great? i dont know anything about you.." something to that extent, you think it can grab their attention?...could make her laugh and lead into a solid convo
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Wrong wrong wrong. You're already wrong in your mindset. "you think it can grab their attention" why in the world do you think you need to have her attention. You should assume already she's paying attention to you. Must be your not so confident about yourself. Well lets fix that. Charles next time think of what she has to do to grab YOUR attention. Why you need her attention and make her laugh what are you her personal entertainer. Go up to her talk to her see if she interesting to you. If yes go for it if not don't.

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^^ yeh hes right its kinda the other way round

It should be her trying to get your attention thats solid game :)

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do you get that ultra confidence through inner game?
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I want to point out what these guys are doing is indirect game. When you go in direct, it usually demands their attention first. I have been struggling with these barriers, but I'm now hybridizing the two.

I feel direct itself as a man shows A LOT of confidence, a lot of daring to put yourself out there. However, Indirect also can show that by being social, and it shows someone more selective but I feel girls don't know this until you start directly flirting with her.
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go out and field test this opener

as for confidence it comes from within, being sure of yourself will come from experience and stepping outside of what is comfortable for you, once you realize who you are and have a clear vision of what you want, it will be easier for you to be sure of yourself
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