Hi Guys,

So I'm currently seeing 3 HBs. All fucking awesome, and all different in their own ways. To clarify, I am loving this shit.

I've Fclosed two of them and I'm not far from having my love truncheon all up inside number 3.

Here's the situation: I'm a firm believer of leaving girls better than I found them and I'm not a fan of bullshit, lies and betrayal. I want to be honest with these girls and tell them about the others, without them losing interest and ensuring that I can still have them want me. I want that puss cake and to eat it too.

Is this an option? If so then how would you go about it? At the moment they only know of my reputation - not my current circumstances. As far as they're concerned I'm not fucking other girls - they havent asked so I haven't told.

I WILL get busted if I carry on like this. My phone's going ten to the dozen and i swear chicks have a radar for this shit - THEY CAN JUST TELL.

Your thoughts would be appreciated.

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Well unless you're in a relationship there's nothing wrong with what you're doing.

Be honest, if they ask. If they don't ask there's no need to tell them. You guys aren't in a relationship, just dating/fucking.

It might be an idea to let them know in case one of them begins to develop stronger feelings for you. Telling them you're seeing other girls could anger them and stop them seeing you, but if not it will also shield them from becoming too attached.

And yes, you will get busted. Girls can sniff this stuff out from a million miles.

Thanks Gents.

@titanman - I see you're point. Technically I'm not doing anything wrong, I haven't promised LTRs with any of them, I've actually told them catagorically I'm not looking for that....somehow I think my actions give the opposite impression though and they're probably pretty headfucked.

@Rough Operator - First of all - Where in England are you based? PM me i'm in England too (Sarge opportunities?).

Second, nice post, I'm going to be telling them straight at some point this week. I've been lurking a bit and found an awesome post on a blog elsewhere about a method to keep them as MLTRS and being honest at the same time.

If you want the link send me a PM (I'm not sure I can post it here) Basically I'll be telling them that I care about them alot but I am hopeless around other women and will only end up hurting them and myself. I'll then be NEXTing them until they come running to help me with my 'problem.'

I don't do the post justice with that awful description, as i say PM me if you want the link - its an awesome read.

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