At my work i flirt with this chick and she said "I'm going to call you hulk from now on" (i am muscular). She has called me it on a few separate occasions and been generally positive towards me.

I know that I should be giving nicknames, but this seems like a compliment in the context of things. Am i right here?

(side question) I work with a gorgeous younger girl who I'd like to boink. She has been told that I have a girlfriend from others, though, and the other day during a convo with me she said "don't you have a longtime girlfriend?" I kind of avoided the question and laughed and kept the convo going with others. Am I shit out of luck if she thinks I'm a player? I barely know her and she doesn't give me IOIs.

1. Yes.

2. She wouldn't be asking that if she isn't interested in you.

3. No. If you play it well, being a "player" works to your advantage.

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