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PostPosted: Mon Apr 16, 2012 3:37 pm 
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Ok so I had a date with this hot lawyer chick on friday and she calls me around 6pm to say she's feeling destroyed and needs to crash for a few hours. It was a first date so I wasn't terribly happy about it. She asks can we meet tomrw and I said no i have plans. She goes, oh let me try to sleep it off because I have a bad headache right now. She calls me at like 10:30 to say she just woke up. I was out already...I reply like an hour later saying just saw your text and am out right now. I said let's speak next week as I am busy the rest of the weekend.

Question is, if i treat this as a flake do I reach out to her now or is it her job to call me? I don't want to do an Afc move here.


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Ok so I had a date with this hot lawyer chick on friday and she calls me around 6pm to say she's feeling destroyed and needs to crash for a few hours. It was a first date so I wasn't terribly happy about it. She asks can we meet tomrw and I said no i have plans. She goes, oh let me try to sleep it off because I have a bad headache right now. She calls me at like 10:30 to say she just woke up. I was out already...I reply like an hour later saying just saw your text and am out right now. I said let's speak next week as I am busy the rest of the weekend.

Question is, if i treat this as a flake do I reach out to her now or is it her job to call me? I don't want to do an Afc move here.
Well the girl tried to reschedule herself and you basically blew her off. Why? This is not a real flake, call her up and arrange a date. Be easy.

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alright fair enough...i think after being an AFC with the last one, I am going a bit overboard trying to be too anti-afc now


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 16, 2012 7:50 pm 
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I wouldn't be too available for her. Rather than taking the next day I'd suggest something later in the week.


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