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I just moved to Saigon, and while the deck is stacked in my favor in many ways (as a white guy), the biggest hurdle so far has been gaming girls that don't speak much if any English. My C&F is mostly lost on these girls. Sure, they can tell when you're being confident just by your body language and tone of voice, but part of the culture, I think, is to not allow themselves to "play along" with such a high energy approach in any situation that isn't like a bar or a club. Too much English usage can also have the effect of intimidating them.
I'm wondering if anyone has any resources or experiences to share on this subject.
Learn some basic words : I like you. you are beautiful, my name is. You have a nice smile. Do you like me. I want you. You are sexy. Come dance with me. Come home with me.
All the rest, let your body and gestures do the talking. Even if they speak english, use these words and phrases when prompted.